Summary:
Based on https://github.com/facebook/rocksdb/issues/6648 (CLA Signed), but heavily modified / extended:

* Implicit capture of this via [=] deprecated in C++20, and [=,this] not standard before C++20 -> now using explicit capture lists
* Implicit copy operator deprecated in gcc 9 -> add explicit '= default' definition
* std::random_shuffle deprecated in C++17 and removed in C++20 -> migrated to a replacement in RocksDB random.h API
* Add the ability to build with different std version though -DCMAKE_CXX_STANDARD=11/14/17/20 on the cmake command line
* Minimal rebuild flag of MSVC is deprecated and is forbidden with /std:c++latest (C++20)
* Added MSVC 2019 C++11 & MSVC 2019 C++20 in AppVeyor
* Added GCC 9 C++11 & GCC9 C++20 in Travis
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/facebook/rocksdb/pull/6697

Test Plan: make check and CI

Reviewed By: cheng-chang

Differential Revision: D21020318

Pulled By: pdillinger

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