Summary:
This patch fix a race condition in persisting options which will cause a crash when:

* Thread A obtain cf options and start to persist options based on that cf options.
* Thread B kicks in and finish DropColumnFamily and delete cf_handle.
* Thread A wakes up and tries to finish the persisting options and crashes.

Test Plan: Add a test in column_family_test that can reproduce the crash

Reviewers: anthony, IslamAbdelRahman, rven, kradhakrishnan, sdong

Reviewed By: sdong

Subscribers: dhruba, leveldb

Differential Revision: https://reviews.facebook.net/D51609