Summary:
Large memory allocations and frees are costly and best done outside the
db-mutex. The memtables are already allocated outside the db-mutex but
they were being freed while holding the db-mutex.
This patch frees obsolete memtables outside the db-mutex.

Test Plan:
make check
db_stress

Unit tests pass, I am in the process of running stress tests.

Reviewers: haobo, igor, emayanke

Reviewed By: haobo

CC: reconnect.grayhat, leveldb

Differential Revision: https://reviews.facebook.net/D14319