Summary:
This header file was including everything and the kitchen sink when it did not need to.  This resulted in many places including this header when they needed other pieces instead.

Cleaned up this header to only include what was needed and fixed up the remaining code to include what was now missing.

Hopefully, this sort of code hygiene cleanup will speed up the builds...

Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/facebook/rocksdb/pull/8930

Reviewed By: pdillinger

Differential Revision: D31142788

Pulled By: mrambacher

fbshipit-source-id: 6b45de3f300750c79f751f6227dece9cfd44085d