this fixes a performance regression introduced in commit
39a58c38.

The symbol map is not good for incremental: it has inputs from every fn
in existence, and it will change if anything changes. One could imagine
cheating with the symbol-map and exempting it from the usual dependency
tracking, since the results are fully deterministic. Instead, I opted to
just add a per-CGU cache, on the premise that recomputing some symbol
names is not going to be so very expensive.

This may seem like overkill, but it's exactly what we want/need for
incremental compilation I think. In particular, while generating code
for some codegen unit X, we can wind up querying about any number of
external items, and we only want to be forced to rebuild X is some of
those changed from a foreign item to otherwise. Factoring this into a
query means we would re-run only if some `false` became `true` (or vice
versa).

Drop of arrays is now translated in trans::block in an ugly way that I
should clean up in a later PR, and does not handle panics in the middle
of an array drop, but this commit & PR are growing too big.

These changes are in the same commit to avoid needing to adapt
meth::trans_object_shim to the new scheme.

One codegen-units test is broken because we instantiate the shims even
when they are not needed. This will be fixed in the next PR.

This removes the duplication between collector, callee, and (eventually)
MIRI.

Fixes #27901.
Fixes #28828.
Fixes #38135.
Fixes #39363.

According to the LLVM reference:
> A value of 0 or an omitted align argument means that the operation has
the ABI alignment for the target.

So loads/stores of fields of packed structs need to have their align set
to 1. Implement that by tracking the alignment of `LvalueRef`s.

Fixes #39376.

This does not make unreachable and other terminators take self by-value
because it is deemed too difficult. We would need to create by-value
methods on BAB that call into Builder, due to the Deref to builder.

Also change to not return anything; nothing used the return ValueRef.

Inlines with_cond.