* Progress on VS 2017 build tooling
* Finally, a working VS 2017 tooling build

This eliminates the dual solutions and brings Contrib into the
project.json fold.
- Tests are ported to xUnit though SQLite is disabled on DNX due to
Issue #375 (Interop loads fail in the VS runner and  params are busted
regardless).
- Projects are consolidated down to what's currently possible with
project.json.
- Contrib moved to: Dapper.Contrib and Dapper.Tests.Contrib (so tests
appear at the end, no other reason vs. Dapper.Contrib.Tests)
- EF moved to: Dapper.EntityFramework(.StrongName)
- Rainbow moved to: Dapper.Rainbow
- SqlBuilder moved to: Dapper.SqlBuilder
- Packages are removed since it's not current-tooling friendly to keep
them (nor was it using them).
- xUnit implemented in Contrib via abstracts - this allow us to very
quickly add any database provider to the rig in a very concise way.
- Contrib unit tests fixed in various places - they were not
parallel-runner friendly
- Nuspecs removed, since they aren't used anymore (to eliminate
confusion)
- Removed speed tests for libraries that aren't on current versions of
.Net (what would we be comparing?)
- Perf tests moved to Dapper.Tests (consolidation from
Dapper.DNX.Tests), but aren't activated yet (no define)

This let's us run the tests much faster and all from Visual Studio,
command line, and Appveyor.

TODO: Flag missing test methods

Async cleanup; implement missing async methods based on multiple pull requests, but introducing CommandDefinition to preserve binary compatibility while allowing new options