merge with https://github.com/opencv/opencv_contrib/pull/3394

move Charuco API from contrib to main repo:

- add CharucoDetector:
```
CharucoDetector::detectBoard(InputArray image, InputOutputArrayOfArrays markerCorners, InputOutputArray markerIds, 
                             OutputArray charucoCorners, OutputArray charucoIds) const // detect charucoCorners and/or markerCorners
CharucoDetector::detectDiamonds(InputArray image, InputOutputArrayOfArrays _markerCorners,
                                InputOutputArrayOfArrays _markerIds, OutputArrayOfArrays _diamondCorners,
                                OutputArray _diamondIds) const
```

- add `matchImagePoints()` for `CharucoBoard`
- remove contrib aruco dependencies from interactive-calibration tool
- move almost all aruco tests to objdetect

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