fixing precommit build on ubuntu-64 (now it takes OCL headers from non-default OCL SDK, but libs from default one)

This also fixes the bug where the Sphinx version gets detected as
"Sphinx vX.Y.Z" instead of "X.Y.Z" on Unix-like systems.

Backport from master.

Old paths can have problems with cross-compilation

Native activity build warning fixed;
Logcat messages for JavaCameraView updated (Bug #2876);
Some fixes for feature #2893 done.

Issue #2868

Issue #2820

command line option '-Wsign-promo' is valid for C++/ObjC++ but not for C [enabled by default]

Mac OS X 10.7 and newer don't come with Java installed. They do
include some stub binaries, which ask the user if they want to
install Java when run.

OpenCV's cmake script just checks for the existence of an ant
binary and assumes that Java's available if ant is. As a result,
cmake will configure the build to use Java and it will fail once
it tries to compile the Java bindings.

This fixes the issue by checking for the exit status of
`ant -version` - it exits 0 if Java is installed, or 1
otherwise.(cherry picked from commit a423afdd)

Fixed flann build with NEON;
Fixed Haming distance with NEON;
Honest cvRound for WinRT added;
cvRound test added;
Video IO with direct show disabled;

* added CUDA to EXTRA libs if OpenCV uses it
* added -rpath-link option for linker if OpenCV was built as SHARED libs

* fix path to libraries in Android SDK
* allow to link to opencv_java.so as Android.mk does

To link to opencv_java.so you can either change your cmake to find OpenCV as

    find_package(OpenCV opencv_java)

or pass -DOpenCV_FIND_COMPONENTS=opencv_java to your cmake command

Native camera libs for MIPS installation fixed.