samples: gpu: removed inclusion of non-existent opencv2/contrib/contrib.hpp header, re-introduced TickMeter class in a separate header

This patch removes inclusion of opencv2/contrib/contrib.hpp header,
which does not exist anymore due to removal of opencv_contrib module.

The samples including this header appear to be doing so in order to
use TickMeter class; therefore, the latter is now provided by tick_meter.hpp
header file, located in samples/gpu folder.

also refactored VideoSource interface (made it simplier, now it has only 2 abstract methods)

This reverts commit fba72cb6, reversing
changes made to 02131ffb.

e.g. <opencv2/core/core.hpp> become <opencv2/core.hpp>

Also renamed <opencv2/core/opengl_interop.hpp> to <opencv2/core/opengl.hpp>