Build Java without ANT #23724

### Pull Request Readiness Checklist

Enables a path of building Java bindings without ANT

* Able to build OpenCV JAR and Docs without ANT
  ```
  --   Java:
  --     ant:                         NO
  --     JNI:                         /usr/lib/jvm/default-java/include /usr/lib/jvm/default-java/include/linux /usr/lib/jvm/default-java/include
  --     Java wrappers:               YES
  --     Java tests:                  NO
  ```
* Possible to build OpenCV JAR without ANT but tests still require ANT

**Merge with**: https://github.com/opencv/opencv_contrib/pull/3502

Notes:
- Use `OPENCV_JAVA_IGNORE_ANT=1` to force "Java" flow for building Java bindings
- Java tests still require Apache ANT
- JAR doesn't include `.java` source code files.


See details at https://github.com/opencv/opencv/wiki/How_to_contribute#making-a-good-pull-request

- [x] I agree to contribute to the project under Apache 2 License.
- [x] To the best of my knowledge, the proposed patch is not based on a code under GPL or another license that is incompatible with OpenCV
- [x] The PR is proposed to the proper branch
- [ ] There is a reference to the original bug report and related work
- [x] There is accuracy test, performance test and test data in opencv_extra repository, if applicable
      Patch to opencv_extra has the same branch name.
- [x] The feature is well documented and sample code can be built with the project CMake