Tag appropriate files for rc3

Also performed an initial run through of upgrading our Copyright date to
extend to 2005 ... first run here was very simple ... change everything
where: grep 1996-2004 && the word 'Copyright' ... scanned through the
generated list with 'less' first, and after, to make sure that I only
picked up the right entries ...

$Header: -> $PostgreSQL Changes ...

macros in some platforms' sys/socket.h.

handle multiple 'formats' for data I/O.  Restructure CommandDest and
DestReceiver stuff one more time (it's finally starting to look a bit
clean though).  Code now matches latest 3.0 protocol document as far
as message formats go --- but there is no support for binary I/O yet.

DestReceiver pointers instead of just CommandDest values.  The DestReceiver
is made at the point where the destination is selected, rather than
deep inside the executor.  This cleans up the original kluge implementation
of tstoreReceiver.c, and makes it easy to support retrieving results
from utility statements inside portals.  Thus, you can now do fun things
like Bind and Execute a FETCH or EXPLAIN command, and it'll all work
as expected (e.g., you can Describe the portal, or use Execute's count
parameter to suspend the output partway through).  Implementation involves
stuffing the utility command's output into a Tuplestore, which would be
kind of annoying for huge output sets, but should be quite acceptable
for typical uses of utility commands.

the column by table OID and column number, if it's a simple column
reference.  Along the way, get rid of reskey/reskeyop fields in Resdoms.
Turns out that representation was not convenient for either the planner
or the executor; we can make the planner deliver exactly what the
executor wants with no more effort.
initdb forced due to change in stored rule representation.

Both plannable queries and utility commands are now always executed
within Portals, which have been revamped so that they can handle the
load (they used to be good only for single SELECT queries).  Restructure
code to push command-completion-tag selection logic out of postgres.c,
so that it won't have to be duplicated between simple and extended queries.
initdb forced due to addition of a field to Query nodes.

context sloppiness, some other things.  Includes Neil's mopup patch
of 22-Apr.