User query can use global shared memory across resource group when available(Same as the PR 4843, just made the test cases stable) (#4866)

1) Global shared memory will be used if the query has run out of
	the group shared memory.
2) The limit of memory_spill_ratio changes to [0, INT_MAX], because
	global shared memory can be allocated, 100% limitation is not
	make sense.
3) Using Atomic Operation & "Compare And Save" instead of lock to
	get high performance.
4) Modify the test cases according to the new rules.