We don't want to hold a read lock when calling a user supplied callback.
That callback could do anything so the risk of a deadlock is high.
Instead we collect all the names first inside the read lock, and then
subsequently call the user callback outside the read lock.

Fixes #14225
Reviewed-by: NTomas Mraz <tomas@openssl.org>
Reviewed-by: NPaul Dale <pauli@openssl.org>
(Merged from https://github.com/openssl/openssl/pull/14250)