docs: fix typos and wording in npm

fix(docs): use latest instead of version in links

docs: add note about npm logging

docs: add proxying a vue app

docs: add how to change port

chore(deps): update debian docker tag to v11

improve npm/yarn install flow and add Windows 10 instructions

Co-authored-by: NJonathan Yu <jonathan@coder.com>

chore(deps): update aquasecurity/trivy-action commit hash to 8eccb55

Co-authored-by: NKatie Horne <katie@coder.com>

Co-authored-by: NKatie Horne <katie@coder.com>

fix: add symlink to npmignore

Revert "Merge pull request #3935 from cdr/jsjoeio-rm-symlink"

This reverts commit 50494472, reversing changes
made to 741b834b.

We still need the symlink for the standlone packages which means we need to redo
how the symlink is removed, ensuring it's only removed in the npm package.

chore: fix path-parse vulnerability

chore: fix docs version to only use latest

fix(lib/vscode): remove symlink in npm package