* remove legacy memory optimization codes, test=develop

* follow huihuang's comments,test=develop

* follow luotao's comments, test=develop

* feature/buffer_shared_inplace, test=develop

* refine code, test=develop

* fix elementwise_add op cpu inplace and sum inplace bug, test=develop

* add unittest and debug log, test=develop

* fix parallel_executor scope bug, polish code, test=develop

* fix sum op, activation op, single_in_place_inference bug, test=develop

* remove kLocalExecScopeName, test=develop

* fix unittest,test=develop

* fix out_var first version bug, test=develop

* follow comments,test=develop

* add use_cuda to inplace pass,test=develop

* add test softmax_with_xe_inplace test,test=develop

* fix potential inplace bug
test=develop

* add more skip vars in mem opt pass,test=develop

* follow comment,test=develop

* follow comments,move duplicate out arg check to program->graph,test=develop

* add use_cuda to inplace pass,test=develop

* add test softmax_with_xe_inplace test,test=develop