refactor npu device manager (#31154)

[feature] support npu allocator

usleep function in <unistd.h> only takes argument less than 1,000,000. Current call can exceed this limit, we have to fix it. This PR can fix random CI error.

PADDLE_RETRY_CUDA_SUCCESS used wrong sleep time so it can cause timeout in unittest. This PR fixed it.

After we searched the doc in https://pubs.opengroup.org/onlinepubs/7908799/xsh/unistd.h.html, the time unit of sleep in unistd.h takes "seconds", usleep takes "microseconds", Sleep in windows.h takes "milliseconds".

Add Sleep Time for CUDA Retry, which is similar to our GPU retry logic. This is a try to avoid init GPU allocation random failure in unit test.

* default not show cpp statck & add hint

* fix failed unittest

* fix failed unittests

This PR is follow up of #28213. On that PR we tried to decrease GPU usage, however the CI still randomly failed. So I added retry logic for the initialization of nccl and cusolver. If the initialization failed, we can retry to avoid the random failure.

* add multiple exception type

* define all exception & polish compile pystack

* mapping paddle error to python exception

* polish static mode error format

* fix failed unittests

* fix dytostatic test_error

* fix check_nan_inf failed

* add unittest for coverage

* revert some code try to solve compile error

* refactor enforce & error change

* polish code & add unittest

* use iwyu clean include, test=develop, test=win

* compilation error, test=develop

* fix compilation error2, test=develop

* fix compilation error3, test=develop

* fix compilation error4, test=develop

* fix compilation error5, test=develop

* fix compilation error6, test=develop

* fix compilation error7, test=develop

* fix compilation error8, test=develop

* fix compilation error8, test=develop

* fix compilation error10, test=develop

* fix compilation error11, test=develop

* print user-friendly error message

* adjust error sumary

* add flags_call_stack_level

* update

* refine code

* refine error stack format

* polish compile traceback format

* polish detail format

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* remove REPLACE_ENFORCE_GLOG compile option & add ci rule prohibit LOG(FATAL) using, test=develop

* remove ci test case, test=develop

* replace all LOG(FATAL) & polish message, test=develop

* fix typo, test=develop

* polish error info detail, test=develop

* simply C++ error stack once again, test=develop

* refactor code remove string pointer and recursive, test=develop

* add new macro BOOST_GET_SAFELY & unittests, test=develop

* add different macro type, test=develop

* fix get macro type in executor, test=develop

* four macro part change backup

* using one macro for all case, test=develop

* revert attribute change, test=develop

* change to three func to solve gcc4.8 bug, test=develop

* polish some details, test=develop

* Add cholesky_op forward part. test=develop

* Complete cholesky_op forward part. test=develop

* Add cholesky_op backward part. test=develop

* Complete cholesky_op backward part. test=develop

* Refine cholesky_op error check and docs. test=develop

* Add grad_check unit test for cholesky_op. test=develop

* Fix sample code in cholesky doc. test=develop

* Refine some error messages of cholesky_op. test=develop

* Refine some error messages of cholesky_op. test=develop

* Remove unused input in cholesky_grad. test=develop

* Remove unused input in cholesky_grad. test=develop

* Fix stream for cusolverDnSetStream. test=develop

* Update PADDLE_ENFORCE_CUDA_SUCCESS from cholesky_op to adapt to latest code.
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* Add CUSOLVER ERROR in enforce.h
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* Fix the missing return value in cholesky. test=develop

* Optimize the error messages of paddle CUDA API, test=develop

* fix the error messages of paddle CUDA API, test=develop

* Refactoring PADDLE_ENFORCE_CUDA_SUCCESS, and apply to curand/cudnn/cublas/NCCL,test=develop

* remove build_ex_string,test=develop

* merge conflict,test=develop

* delete invalid check inferface Ref & VectorRef, test=develop

* fix vector ref delete error, test=develop

* try the new check inferface, test=develop

* change all related code with new check macro, test=develop

* remove static assert, test=develop

* polish detail, test=develop

* skip coverage problem, test=develop

* add new check macro, test=develop

* add op inout check macro, test=develop

* fix enforce_test, test=develop

Compile without nccl deps. [1/2]
Co-authored-by: N石晓伟 <39303645+Shixiaowei02@users.noreply.github.com>

* rename paddle throw error macro, test=develop

* fix new error use case, test=develop

* fix warnings oof gcc 8 compilation, test=develop

* fix boost::bad_get, test=develop

* refine PADDLE_ENFORCE, test=develop

* Enrich the type of error and declare the error type interfaces, test=develop

* adjust tests to adapt new form, test=develop

* add inference deps with error_codes.pb.h, test=develop

* restore stack iter start pos, test=develop

* polish code based review comments, test=develop

* Make formatted ENFORCE stack adapt to more situations and polish details, test=develop

* restore template message position, test=develop