[cherry-pick] faster build by reduce by-product, reduce linking library and fix compile warning of std=c++11(#22230)

* Fix openblas to support compile on Windows when WITH_MKL=OFF

* MKLDNN v1.0 rebase to Paddle 1.6
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* Add hacky paddle::string::to_string() implementation

* vectorize<int64-t>() -> vectorize() cleanup
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* PADDLE_ENFORCE and void_cast fixes
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* Rebase changes
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* Cosmetics
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* Delete MKL from mkldnn.cmake
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* CMake debug commands
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* Delete MKLDNN_VERBOSE and rebase fixes
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* Rebase fixes
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* Temporarily disable int8 resnet101 vgg16 and vgg19 tests
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* Add libmkldnn.so.1 to python setup
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* Add libmkldnn.so.1 to inference_lib cmake after rebase
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* Post rebase fixes + FC int8 changes
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* Fix LRN NHWC
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* Fix NHWC conv3d
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* Windows build fix + next conv3d fix
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* Fix conv2d on AVX2 machines
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fix bug when build openblas with a computer that has installed openblas before,test=develop (#21160)

* Fix TensorRT detection bug

1. Add new search path for TensorRT at tensorrt.cmake
2. Add better debug message
3. Fix the bug of detection of TensorRT version

In NVIDIA official docker image, TensorRT headers are located at
`/usr/include/x86_64-linux-gnu` and TensorRT libraries are located
at `/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu`, so using `-DTENSORRT_ROOT` will
fail to detect TensorRT.

There is no debug/warning message to tell developer that TensorRT
is failed to be detected.

In later version of TensorRT (e.g. v6), `NV_TENSORRT_MAJOR` is
defined at `NvInferVersion.h` instead of `NvInfer.h`, so add
compatibility fix.

* Fix TensorRT variables in CMake

1. Replace `${TENSORRT_ROOT}/include` with `${TENSORRT_INCLUDE_DIR}`
2. Replace `${TENSORRT_ROOT}/lib` with `${TENSORRT_LIBRARY}`

Manually type path may locate incorrect path of TensorRT. Use the
paths detected by system instead.

* Fix TensorRT library path

1. Add new variable - `${TENSORRT_LIBRARY_DIR}`
2. Fix TensorRT library path

inference_lib.cmake and setup.py.in need the path of TensorRT library
instead of the file of TensorRT library, so add new variable to fix it.

* Add more general search rule for TensoRT

Let system detect architecture instead of manually assign it, so
replace `x86_64-linux-gnu` with `${CMAKE_LIBRARY_ARCHITECTURE}`.

* Add more general search rule for TensorRT

Remove duplicate search rules for TensorRT libraries. Use
`${TENSORRT_LIBRARY_DIR}` to get full path of libnvinfer.so

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* Enrich the type of error and declare the error type interfaces, test=develop

* adjust tests to adapt new form, test=develop

* add inference deps with error_codes.pb.h, test=develop

* restore stack iter start pos, test=develop

* polish code based review comments, test=develop

* support no need buffer vars in dygraph, test=develop

* fix inference compilation error, test=develop

* update no_need_buffer_vars_inference, test=develop

* add unittests for no_need_buffer_vars_context, test=develop

* refine no_need_buffer_vars by return ref, test=develop

* polish some codes, test=develop

* refactor dygraph,test=develop

* fix failed unittest,test=develop

* polish code,test=develop

* check windows ci error,test=develop
try to fix windows ci error by np.allclose,test=develop

* polish vlog and profiler, test=develop

* try to fix preceding ops order,test=develop

* test transformer in windows ci, test=develop

* use python c-api to speed up tracer.trace,test=develop

* test=develop, fix docker with paddle nccl problem

* test=develop, add ut for debug string and gradient_accumulator

* test=develop, add tests for layer/gradient_accumulator/prepared_op

* test=develop, fix complie error for test_prepared_op

* test=develop, add more ut for dygraph

* test=develop, create API.spec for dygraph api change

* optimize grad maker; test=develop

* optimize grad maker

* test

* grad make optim; test=develop

* fix unittest bugs; test=develop

* add dygraph grad op maker and split_op

* grad op maker refactor; test=develop

* add dygraph grad maker; test=develop

* fix op deformable_conv_v1_op bug; test=develop

* fix deformable_conv prroi pool bugs;

* fix new op grad op maker bug; test=develop

* fix split by ref bug; test=develop

* fix dygraph auto prune bug; test=develop

* fix test_trace bug; test=develop

* fix fused emb seq pool bug; test=develop

* remove useless code in op_desc file; test=develop

* remove useless code, StrVarBaseNode; test=develop

* fix review issues; test=develop

* fix rank_loss grad maker; test=develop

* remove flag in VarBase; test=develop

* fix distributed_notify_op compile bug ; test=develop

* fix reshape op double grad; test=develop

* fix expand as op; test=develop

* add impertive type_defs.h for demo_train; test=develop

* fix inference lib cmake; test=develop

* fix inference lib; test=develop

* fix infernce_lib; test=develop

* fix inference cmake; test=develop

* fix inference lib; test=develop

* fix inference lib; test=develop

* remove condition dygraph grad maker, modify local name; test=develop

* fix split grad maker bug; test=develop

* fix pyramid_op bug; test=develop

* change travis time out limit; test=develop

* restore travis; test=develop

* change timeout limit; test=develop

* support dlpack to tensor and implement python interface test=develop

* add unittest for _to_dlpack and from_dlpack test=develop

add executor.FetchHandler for train/infer from the dataset

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* test=develop,fix the inference library compilation bug on windows

* test=develop,Fix the inference library compilation bug on windows

* test=develop,fix the bug that PYTHON_EXECUTABLE not exists

* test=develop,fix the inference library compilation bug on windows

* add tensorrt support for windows

* remove async executor and add data_feed.proto to the deps of train demo

* remove the obsolete cmake options, test=develop

* remove unittests, test=develop

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This reverts commit c38c7c56.

* link the libwbaes.so into paddle

* polish detail, test=develop

* try fix mac_pr_ci error, test=develop

* add compile option, test=develop

* fix ci error, test=develop

* ignore failed to find mac lib, test=develop

* change cdn to bj, cdn can't get the latest version

* trigger ci, test=develop

* temporary delete win32 lib linking, test=develop

* change https to http, test=develop

* turn compile option on to off

* turn compile option off to on, test=develop

* try lib compiled by gcc4.8, test=develop

* update lib version, test=develop

* link other lib, test=develop

* add setup config

* delete false, test=develop

* delete no_soname, test=develop

* recover so name set

* fix, test=develop

* adjust make config, test=develop

* remove link to wbaes, test=develop

* remove useless define, test=develop

* Refine Dockerfile

* Add tasks, cmake gen

* Fix code error

* Disable compile after paddle_build.sh

* Refine

* Skip on PY35 CI

* Change env

* Refine paddle_build.sh

* Expose gen_fluid_lib

* Refine mkldnn.cmake

* Refine mkldnn.cmake

* Refine mkldnnlib

* Skip unstable tests

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The allocator.h header file is required for C-API inference applications

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