Cherry-pick of #41521

[cherrypick-2.3] modify infer gpu memory strategy (#41427), remove cudnn_deterministic=True (#41341)  (#41491)
Co-authored-by: NJingZhuangzhuang <75348594+JZZ-NOTE@users.noreply.github.com>

* remove paddle_ipu shared library

* fix unique_name

* limit grid dim for index select

* mv LimitGridDim into gpu_launch_config.h

* fix conflicts

* fix conflicts

* fix code style

* set block to 256

* fix grid setting

* set dtype of block_dim to unsigned int

* support pinned, test=develop

* support async_write, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* refine,test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* support multi_layer of bilstm,*test=kunlun

* support multi_layer of bilstm, *test=kunlun

* support multi_layer of bilstm, *test=kunlun

* support multi_layer of bilstm, *test=kunlun

* fix bug that some op has no op_role attr

* add mkldnn support for new executor

* fit for mkldnn data_transfer

* fit for mkldnn data_transfer

* no

* maintain old profiler

* exclude new python record events for old profiler

* maintain old profiler

* maintain

* maintain old profiler

* maintain

* fix cmakes

* no

* fix bugs

* fix doc according to review

* fix api doc format

* fix api doc according to review

* fix bug and add unit test

* fix record event bug

* optimize chrome tracing display

* fix bug

* add comment

* add unit test

* fix a bug

* fix

* fix

* fix format

Add new APIs for GPU memory monitoring (max_memory_allocated, max_memory_reserved, memory_allocated, memory_reserved) (#38657)

* Add new API memory_reserved

* Add memory_allocated, max_memory_reserved and max_memory_allocater

* Fix CI error

* Fix CI error

* Enhance UT

* Add FLAGS_memory_stats_opt

* Add STATS macro functions

* Add StatAllocator

* Fix CI errors

* Add UT

* Fix CI errors

* add bilinear interpolate v2 to xpu list and unitteset, *test=kunlun

* Delete ps_usr_print_log

* Delete ps_usr_print_log

* Delete xpu_op_test

* swish and pow op for xpu. test=kunlun

* fix code style. test=kunlun.

* use pow_grad xdnn api. test=kunlun.

* no

* fix bugs

* fix doc according to review

* fix api doc format

* fix api doc according to review

* fix bug and add unit test

* fix record event bug

* fit for mkldnn and inplace op

* fix compile

* refine ut

* register op version

* fix inplace op

* fix transfer_layout

* [Phi] Migrate Adam and Adamw into Phi

* fix compile error and unittest ok

* fix compile error and unittest ok

* fix undefined reference to fLI::FLAGS

* test depend on operator

* fix cmake

* fix xpu compile

* fix infrt

* fix amp_type_traits

* fix amp_type_traits

* modify according reviewer

* modify according reviewer

* fix dtype float16

* fix typo

* fix Cmake

* fix code style

* add maximum limit for grid of reduce, elementwise and gather

* add {} after if

* [NPU] add npu support for conv3d and conv3d_grad

* [NPU] delete failed unittests due to Ascend not support

* [NPU] delete debug codes

* [NPU] optimize codes, notest

* [NPU] remove const_cast

* [NPU] optimize for remove const_cast

* [NPU] fix written errors

* Performance optimize

* Optimize GetAllocator, RWLock and ProcessUnfreedAllocation

* Remove test file

* Fix CI error

* Fix CI errors

* Fix CI errors

* add event record for model profiling

* fix format

* fix format

* fix code example bug

* no

* add profiler statistic

* add profiler feature

* fix bug

* fix bug

* fix bug

* fix bug

* required: gpu

* required: gpu

* fix bug

* required: gpu

* fix ci bug

* fix ci error

* fix ci error

* upgrade document

* fix doc

* fix ci bug

* add doc and fix bug

* nothing

* fix bug

* fix format bug

* modify format

* add deprecated description for old profiler

* fix bug

* fix bug

* fix

* add load_profiler_reuslt doc

* add load_profiler_reuslt doc

* add load_profiler_reuslt doc

* help fix old profiler sample code

* add api doc

* fix format

* fix api doc

* fix api doc format

* fix api doc format

* fix api doc c format

* fix api doc format

* add phi device context pool

* change year

* fix compile error

* fix operator = error

* refine init impl

* polish details

* refine init impl

* add more ops

* add authors
Co-authored-by: NXiaobing Wang <xiaobingw@graphcore.ai>
Co-authored-by: NAllen Guo <alleng@graphcore.ai>
Co-authored-by: NZhixin Yao <zhixiny@graphcore.ai>
Co-authored-by: NZhaorui Chen <zhaoruic@graphcore.ai>
Co-authored-by: NHan Zhao <hanzhao@graphcore.ai>

* rm ipu_strategy.check()

* fix UT fail

* fix typo
Co-authored-by: NXiaobing Wang <xiaobingw@graphcore.ai>
Co-authored-by: NZhixin Yao <zhixiny@graphcore.ai>
Co-authored-by: NZhaorui Chen <zhaoruic@graphcore.ai>
Co-authored-by: NHan Zhao <hanzhao@graphcore.ai>

* sync changes

* copy sOpNamescope

* fix UTs

* add authors
Co-authored-by: NXiaobing Wang <xiaobingw@graphcore.ai>
Co-authored-by: NAllen Guo <alleng@graphcore.ai>
Co-authored-by: NZhixin Yao <zhixiny@graphcore.ai>
Co-authored-by: NZhaorui Chen <zhaoruic@graphcore.ai>
Co-authored-by: NHan Zhao <hanzhao@graphcore.ai>

* fix code-format

* fix compile error

* add comments for feed_op
Co-authored-by: NXiaobing Wang <xiaobingw@graphcore.ai>
Co-authored-by: NZhixin Yao <zhixiny@graphcore.ai>
Co-authored-by: NZhaorui Chen <zhaoruic@graphcore.ai>
Co-authored-by: NHan Zhao <hanzhao@graphcore.ai>

* - Prototype of third solution

- fix

- compilation fixes

- fix

- fixe

- fix

- fix

- compilation fix

- comment fix

- lint

update mkldnn conv_elementwise_add_fuse_pass ut

- NHWC changes to prelu

- alhpa dims

- UT fix

- fix to UT

- lint

- Some fixes

- added to BWD of prelu NHWC support

- reverted removal of resetting cu_layout in clearing of caching

* - Small changes

* - compilation fix

* - fix

* - fix

* lint

* - fixes after internal review

* - compilation fix

* - lint

* Add elementwise add and activation fuse pass

* Fix copy ellision

* More flexible pattern detector

* More flexible fusion pass

* Update lists for pass

* Add support for Pow operator

* Add support for more activation types

* Style

* Rename fusion pass

* First version of tests

* Dirty version of pass

* Polished version

* Update pbtxt

* Style

* Update names

* Style

* Use PADDLE_ENFORCE_EQ

* Save error message to variable

* WO for error checks

* CR

* Static style check

* Add missing 'activation_scale' attribute

* Add relu6 and sigmoid activations

* Style

* Fix fuse list formating

* Sync filenames for fuse pass files

* Fix cmake after move

* Fix registration

* Fix pass name in tests

* Add missing activations to checker

* WIPS

* Working mul op

* Working sub

* Working Add

* Remove pten includes

* Remove some forward declarations

* Remove Includes

* Fixes

* Remove default kernels

* Add check if post_ops attributes are avaliable

* Style

* Code adjustment

* Register default kernels

* We have year 2022 not 2021...
Co-authored-by: Njakpiase <jakpia21@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: NSylwester Fraczek <sylwester.fraczek@intel.com>

* Fast review fixes
Co-authored-by: Njakpiase <jakpia21@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: NSylwester Fraczek <sylwester.fraczek@intel.com>

* Review Fix

* Rename one_dnn -> onednn

* Style after review

* Fast and dirty fix for quantization

* Update tests

* Style

* Fix mkldnn_quantizer config

* Add Joanna's suggestion.

* Check if operator is explicitly disables on OneDNN

* Try to use unregistered attributes

* Style

* Test new framework

* FXI

* FXII

* Update test

* Style
Co-authored-by: Njakpiase <jakpia21@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: NSylwester Fraczek <sylwester.fraczek@intel.com>

[KP] Add unittests for brelu,ceil,celu,elu,floor,hard_shrink,hard_sigmoid,log1p,logsigmoid,relu6,silu,soft_relu,softsign,swish (#40448)

* solve unexecuted UT

* add 24 activation op UT

* append swish&thresholded_relu to kpfirst_list

* rm thresholded_relu

* add tril_triu for xpu, *test=kunlun

* add tril_triu for xpu, *test=kunlun

* add tril_triu for xpu, *test=kunlun

* add tril_triu for xpu, *test=kunlun

* add tril_triu for xpu, *test=kunlun

* add pg_hccl

* [custom kernel]Upgade support for multi libs

* upgrade phi_custom_kernel deps

* add python profiler package

* update according to review

* fix bug

* fix bug

* fix bug

* add unit test

* Revert "add unit test"

This reverts commit 4e69ff71b0645e069afe5dd8fea0d07717852c48.

* reduce for pr

* add unit test

* modify for pr

* fix unittest

* update for ci coverage

* modify according to review

* fix bug

* improve coverage

* Added cuBlasLtHandle_t to device context.

* Added fused_gemm_epilogue op.

1. Added fused_gemm_epilogue op to leverage cuBlastLt Epilogue.
2. Support fusion Act(X*Y + bias), X'dims >=2 and Y'dims shoule be 2.
2. Act currently only be supported ReLU. (Will add GeLU in the future).

* Added UT to fused_gemm_epilogue op.

* Added LinearAct Pattern

1. Added LinearAct into graph_pattern_detector.* to define (2.)'s
pattern.
2. LinearAct is used to detect act(element_add(matmul_v2(x, w), bias)).
3. act currently only support ReLU (Will support GeLU in the future).

* Added FuseGemmEpiloguePass

1, Added FuseGemmEpiloguePass to handle nn.Linear + Act{ReLU}
fusion (GeLU will be supported in the future).
2. Only support matmul_v2 from nn.Linear.

* Added pybind to BuildStrageter.fuse_gemm_epilogue_.

* Added UT for fuse_gemm_epilogue_pass.

* GeLU support and EpilogueSingleton

1. Added GeLU support to fused_gemm_epilogue op.
2. Added EpilogueSingleton to cache auxiliary pointer.
3. Added related UTs.

* Rename cublaslt_epilogue_opto gemm_epilogue_op.*.

* Added both train and infer pattern to LinearAct.

1. Added support of fwd graph with grap_ops linking to LinearAct.
2. Added related changes to fuse_gemm_epilogue_pass for above
modification.

* Changed CUDA requirement from 11.4 to 11.6 for fuse_gemm_epilogue_pass.

* Added identity activation support to gemm_epilogue_op.

* Added Linear Fusion (matmul_v2 + ele_add)

1. Added matmul_v2 + ele_add pattern to LinearActPattern.
2. Added matmul_v2 + ele_add support to fuse_gemm_epilogue_pass.

* Rename gemm_epilogue_op.* to fused_gemm_epilogue_op.*

* Add fused_gemm_epilogue_grad op.

1. Added fused_gemm_epilogue_grad to support backward epilogue fusion.

* Add UTs to fused_gemm_epilogue_grad_op.

* Change attribute name in fused_gemm_epilogue_grad_op for clearing.

* Allow DX and DBias be dispensable to fused_gemm_epilogue_grad op.

* Added ElementwiseAdd+Matmul+Act graph pattern detection.

* Fuse backward of Linear( Act(x))

1. Added backward fusion pass to Linear( Act(x)).
2. Added backward fusion pass to Linear(x).

* Added UTs to backward fusion of Linear(Act(x)).

* Complete document of arguments to fused_gemm_epilogue_op.

* Made arguments of some functions pass by reference.

* Modify code with review comments.

1. Made arguments of some function pass by reference.
2. Removed redundant code.
3. Followed Google code style to change code.

* Made 'const' code style be consistent

* Fixed random seed of python UTs.

* Set Compiling constrains to cuBlasLt

1. Require CUDA 11.6+
2. Remove fuse_gemm_epilogue related tests when CUDA < 11.6.

* Code Reivew from Paddle

1. Changed arguments name is_first_gemm to without_x_gradient for
clearing.
2. Applied PADDLE_THROW in fused_gemm_epilogue_op.

* Remove EpilogueSingleton

1. Applied ReserveSpace to replace Epilogue for passing auxiliary
pointers between FWD and BWD.

* Fix a logical error and enhance UTs.

1. Added act op count checking in UTs.
2. Fix issue to fuse backward or ReLU(Linear(X)).
3. TODO: solve GELU fusion issues.

* Fix Linear and GeLU fusion issues.

1. Modified graph_detech_pattern to fit with both linear wiht gelu or
relu.
2. Modified data range in Uts to allow negative values.

* Removed fused_gemm_epilogue_op.h.

* Rename namespace pten to phi.

* Rename name of arguments in fused_gemm_epilogue_op

1. bias -> Bias.
2. out -> Out.
3. reserve_space -> ReserveSpace.

* Change EpiloguePassActivationCache as local variable.

1. Removed singleton in EpiloguePassActivationCache.
2. Made EpiloguePassActivationCache as an argument to each pass
functions.

* clean distribution_helper, index_impl, aligned_vector code in fluid

* fix conflicts