* [feature] support npu allocator (#30840)

[feature] support npu allocator

* [feature] support npu operator (#30951)

[feature] support npu operator

* [feature] support npu allocator, part 2 (#30972)

* support npu allocator

* add npu device context

* fix some compile problem

* fix some compile problem

* add npu info

* compile ok

* fix include dir

* support naive_best_fit_allocator

* run ut ok, bug failed to exit

* call aclrtResetDevice before exit

* fix aclFinilize

* add system allocatot test

* add selected_gpus in gtest

* add tensor_test for npu

* support npu op, initial commit

* add npu stream

* add elementwise_add_op

* compile ok

* fix typo

* fix elementwise_add_op_npu_test

* support op run

* test can run but failed

* change aclopExecuteV2 to aclopCompileAndExecute

* support parsing ascend rank table file (#31000)

support parsing ascend rank table file

* Fix reshape on GE graph. (#31084)

Fix reshape on GE graph

* add npu kernel for elementwise_sub and elementwise_sub_grad (#30973)

* add npu sub op

* fix typo

* rename test

* fix bug

* fix bug

* add fp16 kernel

* fix typo

* support sub grad op

* support elementwise_sub_grad op
Co-authored-by: Nfrankwhzhang <frankwhzhang@126.com>

* Fix compilation problem (#31100)

Fix compilation problem (#31100)

* fix compile

* fix code stype

* remove const_cast

* support adding correct npu op in pybind.h (#31143)

* support adding correct npu op in pybind.h

* refine code

* [NPU] Support executor with NPU (#31057)

* [NPU] Support executor with NPU

* Fix code according to reviews

* Fix code

* Add unittest for sub op npu

* refactor npu device manager (#31154)

refactor npu device manager (#31154)

* fix selected npus

* fix compile

* fix reading flags from env

* format
Co-authored-by: Nxiayanming <41795079@qq.com>
Co-authored-by: Ngongweibao <weibao.gong@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: Nfrankwhzhang <frankwhzhang@126.com>
Co-authored-by: Nliym27 <33742067+liym27@users.noreply.github.com>

* use iwyu clean include second time, test=develop

* use iwyu clean include, test=develop, test=win

* compilation error, test=develop

* fix compilation error2, test=develop

* fix compilation error3, test=develop

* fix compilation error4, test=develop

* fix compilation error5, test=develop

* fix compilation error6, test=develop

* fix compilation error7, test=develop

* fix compilation error8, test=develop

* fix compilation error8, test=develop

* fix compilation error10, test=develop

* fix compilation error11, test=develop

* improve save and load behaviour, test=develop

* code cleaning, test=develop

* disable check_guards and update_guards in release version, test=develop

* fix compilation issue, test=develop

* add buddy_allocator speed test data, test=develop

* fix compilation issue, test=develop

* fix comment, test=develop

* update function names according to the google C++ style guide, test=develop

* tweak the test data format, test=develop

* move buddy_allocator_test_data to paddle/fluid/testdata, test=develop

* add accessor and mutator for Desc, test=develop

* add retry_allocator for gpu, test=develop

* follow chengduoZH's comments, test=develop

* follow huihuang's comments,test=develop

* change f,l in enforce.h to be file,line, test=develop

* increase code coverage by adding unittests, test=develop

* fix CMakeLists.txt, test=develop

GPU allocation uses fraction of available memory, also fix the GetUsed without lock

modify allocator strategy
remove changes of legacy buddy_allocator
test=develop

test=develop

test=develop

Fix code to support cpplint syntax check

test=develop

By shell command

```bash
sed -i 's#ifdef PADDLE_ONLY_CPU#ifndef PADDLE_WITH_GPU#g' `find ./paddle/ -name '*.h' -o -name '*.cc' -o -name '*.cpp' -o -name '*.c' -o -name '*.cu'`
sed -i 's#ifndef PADDLE_ONLY_CPU#ifdef PADDLE_WITH_GPU#g' `find ./paddle/ -name '*.h' -o -name '*.cc' -o -name '*.cpp' -o -name '*.c' -o -name '*.cu'`
```