* add fusion_seqpool_cvm_concat test=develop

* simplify pass, test=develop

* fix code style, test=develop

adjust ins weight according to nid slot , user can specify adjust_ins_weight in strategy

* test=develop
Add the op of unique_with_counts, the op is calc the unqiue input of data, and output the corresponding indices and count of data.

* test=develop
Check the input and dtype in the op of unique_with_counts

* test=develop
test=document_preview
update the API.spec for `unique_with_counts`, at the same time, optimize the python api in the op of `unique_with_count`

* test=develop
test=document_preview
Fix some python api problem in the op of `unique_with_counts`, and change the error messsage in this op.

* Fix some API problem in the op of `unique_with_counts`
test=develop
test=document_preview

* test=develop
test=document_preview
Fix the api sample of op `unique_with_counts`, and update api.spec

* fix depthwise conv gpu kernel bug, test=develop
* add more depthwise conv test, test=develop

test=develop

(1) set fleet_send_batch_num a default value according to trainer num， the previous 80000 is fixed，if trainer num is much less or larger than 100，global shuffle may have timeout error.

(2) fix load one table bug, add barrier

* update parallel.py
test=develop

* support center loss
* change tensor copy  api to high level api tensorcopy

* test=develop rewrite the center_loss cuda_kernel to make it faster
and add document of the center loss api,also update test function

* test=document_preview test=develop
update document of center loss

* test=document_preview test=develop
modify API.spec modify test code remove nouse const_cast

Update conv2d transpose link

make dist unit test exclusive run

test=develop

test=develop

* remove legacy memory optimization codes, test=develop

* follow huihuang's comments,test=develop

* follow luotao's comments, test=develop

* dump slot

* test

* proto

* dump slot

* test

* proto

* code style

* code style

* code style

* style

* add delete after unseen days

* add unseen days

* code style

* conflict solve
test=develop

* add clear model

* code style
test=develop

* code style
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* replace link

* update api.spec

* fix mistake

* open fuse optimization ops
test=develop

test=develop

* first version memory optimize pass, test=develop

* remove move_tensor_sharing_pass, test=develop

* refine code comments, add unittests, test=develop

* turn off memory_optimize by default, test=develop

* follow huihuang's comments, test=develop

* follow chengduoZH's comments, test=develop

* fix grammar error, add const qualifier, fix pass_test exception message, test=develop

* follow chengduoZH's comments 2nd, test=develop

* fix logical APIs

test=develop

test=document_preview

* fix isfinite

* update matmul comments

* update API.spec

test=document_preview

test=develop

* update API.spec

test=document_preview

test=develop

* update API.spec

test=document_preview

test=develop

refine launch_ps and role_maker

Fix FleetWrapper:
1. fix shrink dense: just scale show
2. add datanorm scale: divide datanorm's gradient by batch_size

* split test_dist_se_resnext.py into 4 testcases

* extend matmul op to support multiple head multiplication

With the support of multiple head, the multiplication of two big matrixes is
split into multiplication of several (head_number) small matrixes. e.g. if
Mat A is [3, 24] and Mat B is [24, 4], when multiple A and B with head_number
as 4, Mat A will be split as 4 matrix of [3, 6] and Mat B will be 4 matrix of
[6, 4]. The result of final matrix will be 4 matrix of [3, 4], i.e. [3, 16].

* Make lod reset op support for append lod level.

* Fix API.spec
test=develop

* Fix unitest.
test=develop

* Add python api for lod append.
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* Fix API.spec
test=develop

* Fix format of doc.
test=develop

* Fix unitest.
test=develop

* Fix doc.
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* prun backward ops
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Modify auc doc. Add output variable description, previously was the scalar type, now changed to the tuple type.test=develop (#18771)

The change includes 2 things:

1. save delta model and shrink table are control by the same parameter before, now add delete_after_unseen_days to control shrink table.
2. value in sparse table has no slot before, now add slot in sparse table, and add DownpureCtrAccessor to support the new meta.
test=develop

（1）support patch data （merge slots of instances of same line id, modify dense layer which
changes its size）
（2）add fleet load_one_table interface, support load from paddle model and load from pslib model
（3）fix push sparse bug which cause push sparse cost more time（about 10% in my testcase）
（4）when some slots are not in one of your network (join/update, etc.)，data feed、collect label info、push/pull sparse will skip these slots， instead of throw error.
（5）add more debug info in TrainFilesWithProfiler

* support sparse gradients
test=develop

* supports distributed classification training
* update API.spec
* fix evenly division in python3
* change "index_range" to "index_num" in shard_index operator
test=document_preview
test=develop

add parameter server launch so that a user can easily launch parameter server

The change includes 3 things:

1. Set CPU_NUM to 1 in the tests because the ParallelExecutor will print warning that CPU_NUM is not set and use default 1.

2. Old tests compare two RNNs, hand written simple RNN and same RNN built by Paddle, but initialized RNN weights in numpy random and Paddle random separately. Fixed it by setting weights and bias values.

3. Also set numpy random seed in the tests. Now the two RNNs diff can be smaller (rtol from 0.1, 0.2 to. 0.01) in the tests.

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test=develop

do some odd jobs, test=develop

* split different comm method for mnist distributed training

Test PaddingRNN on V100 GPU device.

Test configuration: large model, padding mode (which is the mode using recurrentOp), one GPU.
                   
GPU memory (MiB):   6414 (this PR)     vs   6837 (without this PR)
Speed (steps/s):         10.28 (this PR)    vs    9.89 (without this PR)