* [feature] support npu allocator (#30840)

[feature] support npu allocator

* [feature] support npu operator (#30951)

[feature] support npu operator

* [feature] support npu allocator, part 2 (#30972)

* support npu allocator

* add npu device context

* fix some compile problem

* fix some compile problem

* add npu info

* compile ok

* fix include dir

* support naive_best_fit_allocator

* run ut ok, bug failed to exit

* call aclrtResetDevice before exit

* fix aclFinilize

* add system allocatot test

* add selected_gpus in gtest

* add tensor_test for npu

* support npu op, initial commit

* add npu stream

* add elementwise_add_op

* compile ok

* fix typo

* fix elementwise_add_op_npu_test

* support op run

* test can run but failed

* change aclopExecuteV2 to aclopCompileAndExecute

* support parsing ascend rank table file (#31000)

support parsing ascend rank table file

* Fix reshape on GE graph. (#31084)

Fix reshape on GE graph

* add npu kernel for elementwise_sub and elementwise_sub_grad (#30973)

* add npu sub op

* fix typo

* rename test

* fix bug

* fix bug

* add fp16 kernel

* fix typo

* support sub grad op

* support elementwise_sub_grad op
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* Fix compilation problem (#31100)

Fix compilation problem (#31100)

* fix compile

* fix code stype

* remove const_cast

* support adding correct npu op in pybind.h (#31143)

* support adding correct npu op in pybind.h

* refine code

* [NPU] Support executor with NPU (#31057)

* [NPU] Support executor with NPU

* Fix code according to reviews

* Fix code

* Add unittest for sub op npu

* refactor npu device manager (#31154)

refactor npu device manager (#31154)

* fix selected npus

* fix compile

* fix reading flags from env

* format
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Co-authored-by: Ngongweibao <weibao.gong@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: Nfrankwhzhang <frankwhzhang@126.com>
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* [ROCM] update fluid platform for rocm35 (part1), test=develop

* address review comments, test=develop

* supports thread-binding stream, test=develop

* avoid using thread_local variables in dtor, test=develop

* modify the stream priority enum, test=develop