* add Output(Step) to distributed fused lamb op

* add _set_step

* refactor eager flags

* fix flags error when we switch from eager to dygraph

* fix ci problem

* fix ci

* fix ci

* merge develop and fix code style

* merge develop and fix code style

* fix op test error

* fix op test error

* fix op test error

* fix op test error

* fix op test error

* merge develop

* vectorize lamb kernel

* remove flags, add ut

* remove useless codes

* refine code, add param order

* add multi tensor apply l2 norm

* add multi_tensor_apply code

* make sizeof(TensorMeta) smalller

* move code to distributed_fused_lamb_op.cu

* remove useless FLAGS

* add DistributedFusedLamb op

* polish code

* fix compile error

* compatible with pten changement

* fix rocm compile error

* improve converage

* update upstream/develop

* fix cast_with_ptr.h

* add FLAGS_distributed_lamb_divide_nranks_when_allreduce=1

* fix clip before allreduce

* add use_master_param_norm

* code polish

* fix bug

* fix ROCM ci