Reduce amax/amin frobenius_norm_kerne原始实现为Eigen实现，文件编译时间较长，因此本PR将其替换为KP实现
删除DefaultElementwiseOperator中重复功能支持，减少elementwise_double_grad OP编译时间

Delete ElementwiseKernel in BroadcastKernel
减少所有Broadcast中重复功能调用，同时减少编译时间和问题体积

删除Broadcast function中rank例化以及Elementwise调用，降低编译时间。
从develop分支中的#42645 PR修改而来，由于develop分支与release分支相差较大，无法实现cherry-pick，因此针对release2.3重新提交PR.
Broadcast中关于rank的例化会导致底层模板展开较多，造成reduce_sum_grad_kernel.cu.o文件体积过大，修改后可以降低.o体积及编译时间

* Optimize performance of dygraph (v4)  (#42196)

* optimize performance of dygraph

* optimize performance of dygraph and elementwise_add

* optimize the trace op

* fix bug

* fix bug

* fix unittest bug

* fix code format

* fix cherry-pick problem

* move elementwise_div grad

* change mutable_data to alloc

* fix compile bugs

* clean distribution_helper, index_impl, aligned_vector code in fluid

* fix conflicts

* move elementwise function to funcs directory

* fix compile bugs

* modify according to comment

* [KP] Add elementwise add xpu, test=develop

* modify the File Permissions

* modify the copyright time

* modify code style

* modify code style

* rename pten dir to phi

* rename namespace to phi

* rename infrt pten dir to phi

* resolve conflict

* rename pten to phi in cmake

* revert all infrt change

* change needed files

* fix infrt failed

* fix inference failed