cinn_launch_op: optimize the overhead of preparing variables before executing cinn compiled program (#41777) (#41910)

cherry-pick #41777
* optimize preparation overhead before executing cinn compiled program

* support check data type and mutable_data with compiled infos in paddle with cinn

* update cinn_instruction_run_op_test with multi data type

* remove needless deps in unittests

* add gpu marco

* fix other unittests

* fix kernel name error

* fix test_prepare_op

* fix failed dygraph unittests

* fix gpu failed tests

* fix cinn test failed

* fix cinn test failed

* fix dropout tests

* swith to PE execution in cinn launch

* fix outer variables erased

* skip the map bug temporarily for test

* temporary solution for batch_norm bug

* update comment

* fix compile error

* cinn_instruction_run_op_test: update code to skip external alloc/free instructions generated

* build a Paddle Graph from CINN compiled program for execution with PE

* update names of some variables

* fix random fail in build_cinn_pass_test and update some comments

* fix compiler error by merging phi pr

* rename pten dir to phi

* rename namespace to phi

* rename infrt pten dir to phi

* resolve conflict

* rename pten to phi in cmake

* revert all infrt change

* change needed files

* fix infrt failed

* fix inference failed

* Unify paddle/pten::framework::ddim into pten::ddim

* fix paddle namespace

* compile sucessfully

* fix npu src file

* fix conflict

* fix conflict

* fix tensorrt compiler error

* fix conflict

* fix conflict

* fix tesst file conflict

* fix conflict

* fix mlu file conflict

* fix mlu file conflict

* fix cinn header file conflict

* fix conflict

* fix conflict

* fix conflict

* fix conflict

* add cinn_instruction_run_op test code

* update several interfaces of CinnLaunchContext

* update several interfaces and add detail comments in CinnLaunchContext class

* to skip the bug of error message check

* fix ut test failed due to reliant interface updated

* remove reshape and elementwise_add registry

* delete code

* fix bugs when run ci ut

* remove log

* fix bugs when run unit test

* fix bugs when run unit test

* fix bugs when run cinn

* fix bugs when run ci-mac-python3

* fix compile bugs

* fix compile bugs

* fix compile bugs

* fix bugs when run kunlun

* fix bugs when compile

* update code according comment

* add cinn_instruction_run_op for launching execution of a cinn instruction

* fix multi definition compilation error

* update cmake

* fix bug at infershape

* fix compile error due to lacking header file

* Merged LoDTensor with Tensor,test=allcases

* Patched python level LoDTensor

* Patched python level LoDTensor

* Merge Tensor into DenseTensor

* Fixed namespace issues,test=allcases

* Fixed merge issues

* Fixed inference issues

* Fixed NPU test issues

* Fixed merge issues

collecting input variables that only shape needed of each subgraph that compiled by CINN in build_cinn_pass, and expose them to memory optimization of framework passes by declaringDECLARE_INPLACE_OP_INFERER in cinn_launch op.

As the title.

complement deps of cmake files under WITH_CINN compilation

cinn_launch_op： cache scope and place on CinnLaunchContext to skip duplicate alloc/free callback construction

1. add a subdirectory named `cinn` in `paddle/fluid/operators` directory and move releated files into it
2. seperate CinnLaunchContext class from `cinn_launch_op.h` and put it in a  new independent file named `cinn_launch_context.h`, so that it can be included by others clearly.