cherry-pick fix cvm check
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Co-authored-by: N123malin <malin10@baidu.com>

(1) use channel instead of vector/BlockingQueue in Dataset，to keep same with existing implementation, and make code more readable and flexible (dataset single output channel or multi output channel). one previous memory out of limit problem is cause by not release memory after training.
(2) add Record because MultiSlotType costs too much memory (80B)，fix memory out of limit problem.
(3) add Channel, Archive in paddle/fluid/framework
(4) change dataset from shared_ptr to unique_ptr in pybind
(5) move create/destroy readers from trainer to dataset
(6) move shuffle from datafeed to dataset. dataset holds memory, datafeed is only for load data and feed data to network.
(7) fix thread num bug of Dataset when filelist size < thread num
(8) support set_queue_num in InMemoryDataset

* modify the interface of Pass::Allay
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* Polish code
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* Fix Travis CI
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* fix Pass::Apply interface
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* Fix Travis CI
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* add is_test to pooling and activations

add prop_kind support for layers activation. conv and pooling

add a pass that sets is_test to true

add transpiler version of is_test pass

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* patch test and pass

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* add pass to analyzer.h

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* add is_test attr description & pass only on mkldnn

in:
activation_op.cc
batch_norm_op.cc
conv_op.cc
dropout_op.cc
lrn_op.cc
pool_op.cc
sequence_pool_op.cc
softmax_op.cc

* fix is_test handling for activation pool and conv

* change description of is_test for all layers again

* remove GetAttr(use_mkldnn) from pass

* rename correct_mkldnn_test_phase to is_test

and remove dependency on MKLDNN
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* review fix magic number

* two if(..)s into one

* Check is_test once and pass mkldnn forward prop kind

* dereference shared_ptr with * (without get())

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* add is_test_pass back

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* add MKL-DNN placement pass

This patch also refactors conv+bn (includes changes from PR
https://github.com/PaddlePaddle/Paddle/pull/13926)
updated to use the mkldnn-placement-pass.

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* remove redundant pass list

* add comment on the default first pass

* fix test for conv+relu mkldnn fuse

fix a few other things

* dist transpiler add control dependency var between send and recv

* fix async deps

* follow comments and refine

* fix deps connect for rpc ops

* make enforce a target and dependent on nccl when gpu is enabled

* add some more dependency

ISSUE=4586495

git-svn-id: https://svn.baidu.com/idl/trunk/paddle@1408 1ad973e4-5ce8-4261-8a94-b56d1f490c56