update Ascendrc hccl to 20.3 (#32126)

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Add 3d Parallelism
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add ascend unittest

Ascendrc

Fix reshape on GE graph

support parsing ascend rank table file

Destroy session first.

Add paddle ascend distribution training supported

Ascendrc add converted op : [range/equal/range/uniform_random/expand/squeeze], fix cast op bug  (#30797)

Ascendrc add converted op : [range/equal/range/uniform_random/expand/squeeze], fix cast op bug 

Merge ascend_optimizer and ascend_parser.

code style

[Feature] Build parser to support distributed training

Pass device_ids info from launch to trainer

Build praser for Hcom* operators

Add distribution supported

* test=develop, fix fleet.metrics(mse, rmse, mae)

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* test=develop, add distributed_infer

* rename sendrecv.proto to namespace paddle.distributed

* split ps with distributed

* add save tensor support
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* add tensor table

* update, test=develop

* update, test=develop

* oneps (3/4)
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* fix fleet for multi-stream

* fix memcpy for ncclid

* use sync to solve move operation

* Sharding add hybrid-dp feature

* update sharding in distributed_strategy

* update sharding unitest

* revise code format for sharding

* add tensor_indices in AssignGroupBySize

* add rebuild group in reducer

* update, test=develop

* fix doc, test=document_fix