cherry-pick prs

#36568
fix fc fuse compat problem

#36610
support lite xpu choose device id

#36010
update lite branch

#36628
add file exists check

cherry-pick #35858、#35895

* cherry-pick 32842

* Add New CI - GPUBOX

* new function: share third party cache among servers to fasten build speed

* modified code according to zhouwei25's comment

* add wget install step, move cd build to the last of if condition

* block note and error of third_party share; change bce upload method

* change third_party sub_dir in bos, since third party in different cuda version cant share

* set sub_dir by get nvcc version

* change third_party local path to be same with bos path

* [NPU] fix npu pr

Fix CPU CI build-time

* [NPU] update batch norm op, test=develop

* add NHWC support for bn, test=develop

* [NPU] add int64 kernels, test=develop

* update ci scripts to be able to trun WITH_ASCEND_INT64 on, test=develop

* [NPU] update npu ut skil scirpts, test=develop

* update, test=develop

* update scripst, test=develop

* add debug code, test=develop

* update

* [NPU] fix cmake for ascend ci, test=develop

* update paddle_build.sh scripts, test=allcase

* notest;test=cpu

* test

* test=document_fix

* notest;test=cpu_gpu

* notest;test=cpu_gpu

* notest;test=cpu_gpu

* notest;test=cpu_gpu

* notest;test=cpu_gpu

* notest;test=cpu_gpu

* notest;test=cpu_gpu

* fix

* fix

* Modify ci time count & fix resnet50_quant multi_thread tests

* fix wrong time variable

* enable infer_ut on windows

* remove lib calculation & time

* unset http_proxy when download bos file on windows

* notest;test=gpu-inference

* notest;test=gpu-inference

* notest;test=gpu-inference

* notest;test=gpu-inference

* fix error

* notest;test=gpu-inference

* notest;test=gpu-inference

* notest;test=gpu-inference

* test=gpu-inference

* add resnet50 trt test in pr-ci-inference test

* [NPU] update NPU ci tests, test=npu_aarch64

* [NPU] fix x86 build and add disable_ut for NPU, test=npu_aarch64

* [NPU] address review comments, test=develop

* polish windows compile for Ninja, fix random compile fail

* polish windows compile for Ninja, fix random compile fail