support Tensor for split and concat, support -1 in num_or_sections, add check num_or_sections (#20780)

* improve split and concat op:
1. support Tensor for argument 'dim' in split op.
2. support Tensor for argument 'axis' in concat op.
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* redefine function GetDataFromTensor and set unknown output shape to - 1.
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* add check: Attr(sections) match Input(X). test=develop

* support Tensor for attr(sections) and attr(sections) can contain -1.
add check for attr(sections).
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* modify error message for concat and call Resize only when necessary. test=develop

* replace part of the old implementation, test=develop

* restore concat op, test=develop

* update all ops implemention & delete GetDataTypeOfVar func, test=develop

* add input type and dtype check, enhance shape error message for concat_op
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* enhance shape check
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* improve coverage

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* add Concat quantization
add unit test for quantizing concat
fix for wrong value when the input is not in map of calculated scales
add use_quantizer to concat_op.cc
add scale_algo rules for concat

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* missing fix for multiple inputs quantize-squash

* wojtuss review fix: adding comment

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* fix concat op vartype check, test=develop

* fix shape_check; test=develop

* fix format; test=develop

* fix format; test=develop

* fix ddim bug; test=develop

* fix c++ format; test=develop

* change function name; test=develop

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Fix code to support cpplint syntax check

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* add ShareLoDs

* refine

* add Is EmptyVarName

* refine Sharedlod

Do not use ctor

* Reduce line of codes.
* We can use virtual function for Maker now.
* The implementation does not care what maker holds, it is easier to
refactor later.

* script to add semicolon

* fix typo

* init

* add some check

* add dist transpile logic

* add insert op for block

* init change get_pserver_program

* optimize code

* fix a bug

* can run now

* start to do table split

* start to process table gradient

* complete pserver part

* can send_vars now

* revert cpplint

* fix a bug

* optimize code

* move dist test to models

* revert the interface of distribute_transpiler.transpile

* fix prefetch_block

* optimize trainspiler code

* add comment to sum_op

* add warning log

* fix comment

* fix test_send_recv

* fix test_send_recv

* fix train with no distributed table

* optimize GetDims

For input argument with a list of variables, drop_empty_grad is not allowed because it makes the correspondence bewteen a variable and its gradient ambiguous. Use REGISTER_OP_EX to register the op or call InputGrad(?,false) in GradOpDescMaker.

* Move framework.proto to proto namespace

* Fix compile

* Fix compile

* Fix Compile

* init decoder_trainer

* can run

* fix lod

* add sharelod to cross_entropy_grad_op

* add avg_cost to fetch list

* modify learning rate

* can run

* optimie code

* add early exit

* fix print

* revert test_understand_sentiment_conv.py

* add act to fc

* Fix Proformance problem of enforce

* Fix missing `;` in code

* Fix CI