[Cherry-pick] Add truncated_normal/unique/swish/unbind yaml and polish Getting tensor place impl (#41539)

* [Phi] Polish truncated normal kernel and add yaml (#41280)

* polish truncated normal kernel

* add yaml

* add truncated normal kernel and add yaml

* polish unittests and yaml

* import dygraph mehtod

* add unique yaml and final state api (#41460)

* fix get tensor backend set bug (#41478)

* [Phi] Add unbind yaml and final state api (#41277)

* add unbind yaml

* fix unittest

* [Phi] Add swish yaml and final state api (#41479)

* add swish yaml and final state api

* skip mkldnn test

* fix grad mkldnn test

* add cherry-pick lost code

* optimize performance of  C++ API

* remove stop_data_transform flag temparily

* replace Backend by Place in C++ API

* fix left code

* fix test_to_api bug

* add phi device context pool

* change year

* fix compile error

* fix operator = error

* refine init impl

* polish details

* refine init impl

* rename pten_utils to phi_utils

* rename pten_utils target

* rename Pten to Phi

* replace pten with phi

* resolve conflict

* rename pten dir to phi

* rename namespace to phi

* rename infrt pten dir to phi

* resolve conflict

* rename pten to phi in cmake

* revert all infrt change

* change needed files

* fix infrt failed

* fix inference failed

* ermove xxx_info include

* fix namespace error

* resolve conflict

* skip xpu context in registry

* fix macro error

* resolve conflict

* resolve conflict

* revert xpu convert

* remove trans to fluid place

* remove useless headers

* open header for custom kernel

* add core utils

* tidy core code

* tify header

* tidy include

* tidy namespace

* resolve conflit

* fix unittest and coverage

* remove platform using

* resolve conflict

* resolve conflict

* fix digamma namespace error

* fix xpu full kernel error

* fix xpu full kernel error

* polish details

* add place for lib storage

* unify device context entrance

* move all_context include to header

* polish cmake relay for device_context

* fix npu compile failed

* fix npu compile failed

* revert part of change

* add code-gen file

* add api-gen in cmake

* adjust the code format

* temp save the code

* add genen-api module into pten

* merge the develop code

* fix merge conflict

* fix code conflict with develop

* support reduce_mean/sum

* fix the CI requirement

* fix requirement problem of CI

* remove original api code

* fix bug caused by removing original api

* move extension into pten [no-verify]

* append tensor methods by ext_tensor [no-verify]

* append other tensor methods [no-verify]

* ext related files tidy [no-verify]

* include relation tidy [no-verify]

* add pten tensor test [no-verify]

* replace tensor in custom op & compile success

* refine tensor constructor for unittest

* custom relu jit run success

* fix all custom op unittests

* add inference cmake adapt [no-verify]

* fix failed unittests

* fix windows failed unittests

* try to fix kunlun and inference failed

* fix test_elementwise_api error

* try to fix win compile failed

* fix kunlun fp16 type error

* remove useless haddle error macro

* add custom linear op test

* fix compile failed & add win symbols

* fix non pten kernel cast failed

* add dll decl for api

* polish several deetails

* polish details by review comment

* add dll_decl for register