[inplace] Add ShareHolderWith for class Variable and SharePlaceholderWith in VarBase.detach() to share the same Tensor/SelectedRows (#29267)

* add decorator, test=develop

* add fake_interface_only, test=develop

* remove some dygraph_not_support, test=develop

* change dygraph to imperative, test=develop

* modify fc to linear in sample code, test=develop

* remove FC, test=develop

* remove warnings, test=develop

* drop fluid/imperative/README.md , test=develop

* change fc to linear, test=develop

* polish code style, test=develop

* test=develop, fix docker with paddle nccl problem

* test=develop, Add Variable api and refine dygraph related API

* test=develop, Add Variable api and refine dygraph related API

* test=develop, refine test for new api and error info

* test=develop, refine error info and test_layers

* test=develop, add API.spec

* test=devleop, fix to_string python2 and python3 compat error and refien doc

* test=devleop, add API spec

* test=devleop, update API spec

* test=devleop, update API spec

* test=develop, invoke ci

* test=develop, fix example code

* test=develop, update API spec

* test=develop, add compat test and fix inplace campat dict error

* add to and detach for Variable in dygraph, test=develop

* add detach for Variable in dygraph, test=develop

* add detach for Variable in dygraph, test=develop

* add detach for Variable in dygraph, test=develop

* add detach for Variable in dygraph, test=develop

* add detach for Variable in dygraph, test=develop

* add exception check, test=develop