* add retry for prefetch

* Revert "Fix/sync barrier (#25016)"

This reverts commit be6a315f.

* reopen dist UT, test=develop

* remove fl UT, test=develop

* test=develop, bug fix for sparse recorder

* update pserver decay blocks

* update distributed notify handler

* bug fix: invalid learning rate decay in pserver async mode

* rpc retry for asycsend/get/prefetch

* test=develop, change retry vlog level to 3

* test=develop, set default grpc_retry_times is 3

checkpoint for distributed training.

test=develop

Fix code to support cpplint syntax check

test=develop

* wip

* add ref_by_trainer_id op

* ready to test

* fix ref inputs

* refine rpc_op_handle

* fix merge bug

test=develop

* wip

* use executor.complete to end trainer

* fix build

* fix build with distribute off

* fix typo

* fix cmake typo

* fix build