[Cherry-pick] Fix dtype unmatched in custom op API

cherry-pick of #31305

* modify custom op dependent from paddle_framework to paddle_custom_op (#31195)

* [Custom Op] Remove unsupport dtypes (#31232)

* remove remove_unsupport_dtype

* remove remove_unsupport_dtype

* remove test dtype

* add more include

* change dtype.h's enum as enum class to avoid conflict with inference lib

* make enum as enum class

* remove additional test

* merge develop

* polish code

* [Custom OP] Support stream set on Custom Op (#31257)

* [Custom OP] change the user header file format, test=develop (#31274)

* [Custom OP]add PD_THROW and PD_CHECK for User Error message (#31253)

* [Custom OP]add PD_THROW and PD_CHECK for User error message

* PD_THROW and PD_CHECK, fix comment

* fix Windows error message

* fix Windows error message

* fix CI

* [Custom OP]add MSVC compile check on Windows (#31265)

* fix test_check_abi
Co-authored-by: NZhou Wei <52485244+zhouwei25@users.noreply.github.com>
Co-authored-by: NJiabin Yang <marsyang199376@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: N石晓伟 <39303645+Shixiaowei02@users.noreply.github.com>
Co-authored-by: Nzhouwei25 <zhouwei25@baidu.com>

* [CustomOp] Add Modeling with Custom op unittest (#31218)

* add unittest for static/dygraph/dy2stat

* add PE unittet

* remove usless code

* add unittest in CMakeList.txt

* [CustomOp] Split build op marco & polish details (#31229)

* split build op marco & polish details

* revert register api del

* fix other unittest

* [CustomOP]Support Incremental compilation and Add Version management (#31228)

* Support Incremental compilation and Add Version management

* replace hash with hashlib

* fix test_op_num unittest

* Revert "fix test_op_num unittest"

This reverts commit 2f78de976e1d7ca60915b2310717b38a32ae204a.
Co-authored-by: NChen Weihang <chenweihang@baidu.com>

[Cherry-pick] The Second part of new custom op extension in 2.0.1

[CustomOp] New custom operator extension mechanism in 2.0.1

Cherry-pick New custom operator basic implementation related PRs