* cherry pick heter ps

* 　CMakeList

* ps gpu transpile

* ps gpu

* remove op

* gps trainer

* local ps

* add macro

* HeterBox

* def cuda

* tab

* code style

* style

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* add xpu in heter mode
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* BOOST_CONST_GET; PADDLE_THROW
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* code style
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* code style
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* code style
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* refine
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* refine
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* refine
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* refine code
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* use iwyu clean include, test=develop, test=win

* compilation error, test=develop

* fix compilation error2, test=develop

* fix compilation error3, test=develop

* fix compilation error4, test=develop

* fix compilation error5, test=develop

* fix compilation error6, test=develop

* fix compilation error7, test=develop

* fix compilation error8, test=develop

* fix compilation error8, test=develop

* fix compilation error10, test=develop

* fix compilation error11, test=develop

* fix worker endpoints

* fix gloo wrapper for hdfs

* GPU fleetrun support gloo

* parameterserver fleetrun support gloo

* fix get server endpoint

* fix eigen in push sparse; fix hadoop command
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* add log in load_combine_op
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add collective op for cpu using gloo and paddle.distributed.* apis

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* test=develop,test=document_fix, remove the out args

* fleet_util move to paddle.fleet
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* add heter ps mode

* code style
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* add with_pslib
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* unitest
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* code style
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* code style
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* code style
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* code style
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* code style
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* code style
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* code style
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* code style
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* test monitor
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* prepare trainer
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* code style
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* fix softmax_with_cross_entropy cuda kernel overflow bug, test=develop

* replace old macro & for condition, test=develop

* polish details, test=develop

Support CMatchAucCalculator based on CMatchRankAucCalculator with a new parameter ignore_rank

* Fix the field length in LoD scenario
* Fix the missed lod info when copy tensor in dump field
* Add some log to make debug easy

* remove REPLACE_ENFORCE_GLOG compile option & add ci rule prohibit LOG(FATAL) using, test=develop

* remove ci test case, test=develop

* replace all LOG(FATAL) & polish message, test=develop

* fix typo, test=develop

* polish error info detail, test=develop

* Support AucRunner in PaddleBox
* update some code style

* Add InitializeGPUAndLoadModel to solve random hang when downloading sparse parameters.
* Update SaveBase to solve test problem.

* add new macro BOOST_GET_SAFELY & unittests, test=develop

* add different macro type, test=develop

* fix get macro type in executor, test=develop

* four macro part change backup

* using one macro for all case, test=develop

* revert attribute change, test=develop

* change to three func to solve gcc4.8 bug, test=develop

* polish some details, test=develop

* add timeout and http store in communication, add revert and confirm in fleet
* test=develop

* add save with prefix
* test=develop

* Involves AfsAPI to resolve slow downloading.
* Mainly used in PaddleBox

* add fleet pslib pull and push sparse op and push dense op
* test=develop

* add clear_one_table
* test=develop

* add maskauc in paddlebox; test=develop

* Add two types of Metric Calculator: MultiTaskCalculator & CmatchRankCalculator.
* Add a config for DynamicAdjustChannelNum function to denote whether we will discard the remaining instances when they are not be distributed evenly.
* Remove CPU code in Pull/PushSparse and we will add it back when testing it fully.
* Fix some known issues: such as copying persistable vars after one epoch running.

Refine PaddleBox Framework, Main functions: 
* Add MetricMsg util class, which can calculate metrics like AUC, bucket_error, COPC.
* Replace FeedPass with new interface: BeginFeedPass & EndFeedPass
* Refactor Pull/Push Sparse Function in box_wrapper.
* Use CUDA Kernel to copy keys and copy feasign between tensor and boxps struct.
* Cache copied keys in pull sparse in order to reuse it in push period.

* update

* update test=develop

* update compile set test=develop

* update compile set test=develop

* update test=develop

* update test=develop

* update test=develop

* update compile setting test=develop

* update compile setting test=develop

* update run demo test=develop

* update test=develop

* update test=develop

* fix test=develop

* update test=develop

* update test=develop

* update test=develop

* update test=develop

* update test=develop

* update test=develop

* update test=develop

* update test=develop

* update test=develop

* update format test=develop

* update format test=develop

* update style test=develop

* update style test=develop

* change style test=develop

* change style test=develop

* change style test=develop

* add dataset unittest test=develop

* update test=develop

* update for record test=develop

* udpate style for record test=develop

* update for record test=develop

* update for record test=develop

* update for record test=develop

* fix format test=develop

* update test=develop

* update test=develop

* update test=develop

* update test=develop

* update test=develop

支持不依赖nccl进行编译。[1/2]

多卡下，如果没有打开WITH_NCCL开关编译，多卡不能通信，则只能选择一张卡使用。
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cmake选项中添加了WITH_NCCL，显示指定是否编译NCCL的部分代码，WITH_NCCL默认打开，但如果WITH_GPU为OFF，则关闭WITH_NCCL

添加了PADDLE_WITH_NCCL定义

单机单卡能够关闭NCCL编译，多卡的话需要默认打开NCCL，如果关闭NCCL，则只能使用单卡
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* add GeneralRoleMaker which is for general usage
* test=develop

* add collective communication library in fleet to replace mpi
* test=develop

* general table

* add sparse table
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* no cvm
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* add no_cvm
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* add note
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* code style
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* code style
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* code style
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* code style
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* code style
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* add key of optimizer
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* solve pslib stop core
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* barrier
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* add notes
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* add table id in cache shuffle
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* table id
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* code style
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* fix code style of fleet_wrapper
* test=develop

* print table stat
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* notes
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* notes
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