Co-authored-by: Ntianshuo78520a <707759223@qq.com>

原始PR：#30485，#30507

Cherry-pick PR 30103. Add Inplace strategy (Output reuse Input Varbase) in dygraph (#30103) (#30496)

* add view strategy on squeeze,unsqueeze,reshape,flatten

* add squeeze unittest

* add unittests

* use View strategy as name rather than Reuse Allacation

* fix view api doc

* fix format

* use core.ops when input of reshape2 is Tensor

* fix test_cross_entropy_loss error because of reshape2

* fix test_cross_entropy_loss error because of reshape2

* add inplace strategy

* add elementwise_add sub

* let backward op not use inplace

* grad op do not use inplace

* fix memory increase error and add leaf error message

* delete selected_rows

* change op_function

* little change

* solve HandleViewBetweenInputAndOutput

* add unittest and leaf error message

* merge view error

* optimize op_function_generator format and support sum inplace op

* fix format of basic_engine

* fix format for framework

* little change of variable wrapper

* add reshape, squeeze, unsqueeze, scatter api

* add relu elu tanh softmax inplace api

* fix test_squeeze_op unittest

* fix test_relu_op unittest

* fix comment problems

* delete sample code of inplace api

* add reference of grad_pending_nodes in basic_engine

* fix unittest name

* add inplace apis into wlist

* fix error message

* add PADDLE_ENFORCE for set grad op twice

* fix head file error

* Add double grad for conv_transpose (#29706)

* add double grad for conv_transpose

* register cudnn conv double grad for depthwise conv (#29807)

* [Kunlun] PR1:Support one Kunlun card training in parallel executor (#29337)

* [Kunlun] PR2: Support MultiDevicePass and BKCL in parallel executor (#29574)

* [Kunlun] bug fix of PR2: Support MultiDevicePass and BKCL in parallel executor  (#29926)

* add bkcl.so in whl for kunlun (#29947)

* [Kunlun] bug fix of PR2: Support MultiDevicePass and BKCL in parallel executor  (#29961)
Co-authored-by: NQingshuChen <qingshu.chen714@gmail.com>

* remove addcmul

* remove unittest and other related code of addcmul

* fix bug

* fix merge conflict

* fix failed tests in yingchun gived list

* add unittests into static_mode_white_list

* add enable static

* fix dist unittest

* skip test_sigmoid_focal_loss_op & add gym

* revert no need skip unittests

* remove gym

* Generate code coverage reports only for incremental files, test=develop

* Generate code coverage reports only for incremental files, test=develop

* Generate code coverage reports only for incremental files, test=develop

* test for diff python file, test=develop

* fix no python diff report, test=develop

* add cc test file, test=develop

* fix bug in generic.cmake, test=develop

* for debug no cc report, test=develp

* modify compire branch form test_pr to test, test=develop

* fix bug, test=develop

* test for h file changed, test=develop

* debug for redefinition of argument optimize error, test=develop

* close -o3 for test, test=develop

* remove -o3 for test, test=develop

* remove coverage option for nvcc, test=develop

* use CMAKE_CXX_FLAGS open coverage option when header file changed, test=develop

* reopen -o3, test=develop

* remove debug code, test=develop

* remove unused code, test=develop

* Add bf16 pool2d and unify bf16 unit tests

* Add change default ops test

test=document_fix

* Add multi_gru_fuse_pass and tests

* fix date

* cleaned up headers

* polish parallel api impl & doc details

* add unittest for coverage

* remove spawn test in py2.7

* add parallel api into white list

* upgrade comment string to raw string

* fix string in

* fix string with ' '

* revert update on comments

* upgrade only necessary

* fix sample code checker

* fix comments with '''

* Add multi_gru_seq_fuse_pass and tests

* fix date

* removed unused functions

* Add bf16 matmul, fc, elementwise add and mul

* Correct unit test

* Add multi_gru op and tests

* removed redundant disable_dygraph()

* add mkldnn inplace op version test

* update mkldnn_inplace fuse pass

* update the inplace test

* add monitoring for executive ut at night

* fix some error for paddle_build.bat

* fix some error

* fix some error in windows

* fix some error on windows

* Add bfloat16 softmax and gelu

* Add pass attr bfloat16_enabled_op_types

* Changes from review

* - Added sum bf16 oneDNN

test=develop

* - Fix to UT of sum bf16

test=develop

* add generate_proposals_v2 op

* 01:Modify the shell script according to the specification

* 01:Modify the shell script according to the specification