* [Eager]Fix segment_pool/allclose/isclose/scale API bug (#41506)

* [Eager]Fix segment_pool/allclose/isclose/scale API bug

* fix kernel register problem

* add norm, segment_pool (#41465)
Co-authored-by: Nhong <43953930+phlrain@users.noreply.github.com>

* add norm cpu

* update code;

* norm bug fix

* move norm op to pten; test=develop

* move norm op to pten; test=develop

* add norm util; test=develop

* fix norm npu bug; test=develop

* fix norm kernel bug; test=develop

* move kernel args to pten; test=develop

* move kernel args to pten sig; test=develop

* support fp16 dtype

* fix error message of l2_normalize, matmul, mean, etc. 
* add the test case for those ops

sequence_unpad, expand, pad, pad_constant_like,
norm, bilinear_tensor_product, flatten2, im2sequence,
unpool, cos_sim, strided_slice, flatten, elementwise_min,
abs, acos

test=develop

* Implement norm_op by CUDA instead of Eigen.
* Remove the commented code.

* Add normalization operator.
1. Refine the raw norm_op and let it more general to support to normalize Tensor along any axis.
2. There is a bug in l2_normalize API, which lacks sqrt after `reduce_sum`.
3. Use norm_op to refine the l2_normalize API.
4. Fix bug in test_normalization_wrapper.py.

Currently, our tests run with 2 GPUs, the init time is absurdly long:
about 4s for each process.  Currently, we run each OP test on
different processes. This PR:

1. create cmake function py_test_modules which will generate the
Makefile that runs a list of Python unittest module in a single Python
process.

2. move all "python unittest compatible" (e.g., used the unittest
package, not just a regular python file). from fluid/tests to
fluid/tests/unittests.

3. cmake now will run all OP tests in fluid/tests/unittests in a
single process, except the time-consuming tests, they are separated
into different processes to utilize parallelism. Please make sure to
use the unittest package if you put the python test file in
fluid/tests/unittests

4. remove all exit(0) from fluid/tests/unittests/*.py, exit(0) is used
to disable unittest, we can not do it when running all tests in a
single process since it will terminate the process without running the
other tests. Instead, the test is disabled in
fluid/tests/unittests/CMakeLists.txt. FIXME is added for each disabled
item. Please disable the unittest from
fluid/tests/unittests/CMakeLists.txt, instead of adding exit(0) to the
Python file, for all Python file in fluid/tests/unittests/.

5. add an option WITH_FAST_BUNDLE_TEST. When OFF, will run the unit
tests in separate process so that they can be tested individually.

* "fix decode bug"

* "follow commnet"

* "fix error"

* "fix hook bug"

* fix based comment

* fix copyright

* fix based on comment

* add copyright hook

* add copyright hook

* refine copyright hook

* "test copyright hook"

* fix check style

* fix ci