[Phi]Separate AddKernel/DivideKernel/SubtractKernel/MultiplyKernel from ElementwiseKernel（Part1） (#41806)

* seperate add/div/sub/mul from elementwise

* delete code

* fix compile bugs

* deal with conflict

* fix bugs when compile

* fix windows unit test bug

* fix ci converage bugs

* rename pten_utils to phi_utils

* rename pten_utils target

* rename Pten to Phi

* replace pten with phi

* resolve conflict

* [KP] Unify .cu and .xpu files with .kps files

* fix CI bug in GPU and modify the list

* fix conflict

* modify the date

* rename pten dir to phi

* rename namespace to phi

* rename infrt pten dir to phi

* resolve conflict

* rename pten to phi in cmake

* revert all infrt change

* change needed files

* fix infrt failed

* fix inference failed

* remove reshape and elementwise_add registry

* delete code

* fix bugs when run ci ut

* remove log

* fix bugs when run unit test

* fix bugs when run unit test

* fix bugs when run cinn

* fix bugs when run ci-mac-python3

* fix compile bugs

* fix compile bugs

* fix compile bugs

* fix bugs when run kunlun

* fix bugs when compile

* update code according comment

[Pten]Refactor elementwise_add grad / double grad / triple grad Kernel and move them to pten (#39048)

* refactor elementwise add grad

* fix compile bugs

* fix unit test bugs

* fix file conflicts

* fix bugs when buildPtenContext

* add kernel for c++ api

* fix compile bugs

* fix kunlun compile bugs

* perfect cmake

* fix compile bugs when run ci-inference

* fix compile bugs

* add non-raw kernel for fluid op

* fix compile bugs

* fix compile bugs

* fix unit test bug

* add cpu_context.

* update

* update

* update

* update

* update

* fix ci problem

* fix npu ci problem

* update

* fix ci compile

* move dot_dev api into dot_kernel.h

* add infermate header

* modify to dotkerel in dot_op.h

* mvoe conj dev api into complex_kernel.h

* move sign dev api into  sign_kernel.h

* move scale dev api into kernel.h and remove infermete.h

* rm paddle/pten/include/math.h

* rm paddle/pten/include/math.h

* rm include dir

* rm paddle/pten/include/math.h

* fix conflict with develop branch

* rm devContext in conj_op.h

* add the missing complex_kernel header

* fix the wrong filename

* first commit

* first commit

* remove rest useless headers

* for ci approval

* change 'math' to 'math_kernel'

* fix compile bugs

* merge develop

* fix compile bugs

* Reduce reshape kernel functions in pten

* delete notes

* fix bugs when compile

* modify register name

* fix compile bugs

* elementwise_add kernel refactor

* fix compile bugs in elementwise_add refactor

* fix compile bugs when run in npu/xpu

* fix bugs when run unit test

* fix bugs when run ci-windows

* modify code as recommended

* code format adjust

* fix bugs when run ci

* fix compile bug when run in ci-windwos

* Support elementwise_add triple grad Kernel

* Change code-format to follow CI std

* [ROCM] update fluid elementwise op for rocm (part10), test=develop

* update, test=develop

* address review comments, test=develop

* fix windows for optimization of elementwise_add Op

This reverts commit befd6d53.

* improve performance of elementwise_sum_grad

* pass stop_gradient for cast op

* improve performance of elementwise_add grad

* use tensor copy async

* dygraph branch

* fix dygraph branch

* add ut

* use iwyu clean include, test=develop, test=win

* compilation error, test=develop

* fix compilation error2, test=develop

* fix compilation error3, test=develop

* fix compilation error4, test=develop

* fix compilation error5, test=develop

* fix compilation error6, test=develop

* fix compilation error7, test=develop

* fix compilation error8, test=develop

* fix compilation error8, test=develop

* fix compilation error10, test=develop

* fix compilation error11, test=develop

Improve elementwise operators performance in same dimensions