* Revert "[Phi] Migrate Adam and AdamW into Phi (#40351)"

This reverts commit 56cd3407.

* add infermeta

* code

* code

* [Phi] Migrate Adam and Adamw into Phi

* fix compile error and unittest ok

* fix compile error and unittest ok

* fix undefined reference to fLI::FLAGS

* test depend on operator

* fix cmake

* fix xpu compile

* fix infrt

* fix amp_type_traits

* fix amp_type_traits

* modify according reviewer

* modify according reviewer

* fix dtype float16

* fix typo

* fix Cmake

* fix code style

* move activation op

* adjust code format

* fix compile bugs

* fix ci bugs

* code format adjust

* code format adjust2

* activate ci status

* modify according to comment

* move activation kernel

* revert relu6

* reduce add code

* perfect use_phi_functor

* completing func name

* fix bugs when run ci

* fix bugs when run infr

* modifpy infrt get kernel signature