cherry-pick #41884 

Cherry-pick #40338 #41741 #41313

* fix data transform problem for cudnn backend (#41622)

* Fix problem of infermeta with vector output (#41646)

* remove stack_grad infershape

* fix bug of output with null

* fix bug

* no

* maintain old profiler

* fix old dygraph record event

fix bug when TruncatedNormal cannot fall back in cpu

* switch autotune

* implement AutoTuneCache

* implement AutoTuneCache class

* add pybind api

* add dygraph test

* support static mode and eager mode and improve unittests

* rename the SwitchAutoTune Class and improve tests

* improve AutoTuneStatus and reduce the cost of tests

* [KP] fix bug in phi static graph mode

* modify the useless code

* add cross_entropy_with_softmax phi kernel

* remove softmax_with_cross_entropy kernel

* add softmax_with_cross_entropy grad kernel

* remove original op kernel

* refine cross entropy impl

* fix pointer error

* revert kernel cu change

* fix xpu failed

* fix cinn failed

* fix npu failed

* add forward sig

* add check_nan_inf for pt kernel

* remove repeat cmake item

* fix unittest error

* add interploate cpu kernel

* fix nullptr bug

* add interpolate gpu kernel

* fix unit test error

* remove raw kernels

* add cuda kernel impl

* add infermeta

* recover accidentally deleted kernels in interpolate op

* fix grad x_grad name error

* remove interpolate_v2_op.h

* rm unused codes

* fix xpu build error

* fix build error

* fix namespace error

* add register header for nup

* fix infermeta error

* modify by review

* add the missing args in test_trt_convert_nearest_interp_v2

* fix bug in activation xpu kp kernel

* delete useless comment

* rename scalar_array to int_array

* update cmake

* fix conflict

* remove useless log

* [KP] fix bug in phi kp

* delete useless comment

* update

* update

* choose the xpu kp kernel in phi

* remove in_dtype, out_dtype in redcue grad

* set the dtype and layout in noneedbufferInputs func

* add mul phi kernel

* remove mul op kernel

* remove original mul grad op

* fix cinn test

* fix dygraph test failed

* fix some slice bug, test=develop

* eager slice, test=develop

* eager slice, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* fix bug, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* rename function name, test=develop

* Removed redundant use of declarations.h

* Fixed minor bug

* first commit

* fix compile error

* support std::vector<std::srting>

* fix

* fix op support on GPU by chenweihang

* pass test

* infershape

* add set_dtype

* fix order

* fix

* unify the impl of dt and sr

* fix

* move assign kernel init commit

* change vec<tensor> to vec<tensor*>

* support tensor array

* support api declare

* fix test_list failed

* fix npu and xpu failed

* fix infrt failed

* remove assign array size in operator

* move assign sr header into sr dir

* add infermeta for assign

* test op success

* fix test_list failed

* fix kunlun failed

* add set host allocator in tests

* support tensor array in arg ctx

* open set layout in share_meta

* fix meta tensor layout error

* fix test failed

* move roi_align_grad kernel

* move roi_align grad kernel and infershape to phi

* remove roi_align infershape

* [kp]fix bug that cannot fallback to CPU normally in XPU KP

* fix bug in static graph

* run python api in eager model and filter the out in argument list

* fix code

* [NPU] add AMP O1 support

* [NPU] fix NOTE and warnings

* Added more signposts to dygraph profiling

* Fixed minor issues

* Refactored signpost names

* Fixed typo

* Removed debug codes

* Fixed typo

* Adjusted signpost names

* Fixed issues from branch merge

* move one hot to phi; test=develop

* fix bugs; test=develop

* fix bugs; test=develop

* add infer meta; test=develop

* fix bugs; test=develop

* resolve confilct

* resolve confilct

* fix bug;

* fix error; test=develop

* update; test=develop

* polish code; test=develop

* add one api in eager mode; test=develop

* add one hot test; test=develop

* remove use less code; test=develop

* fix bug; test=develop

* polish code; test=develop

* polish code; test=develop

* Move Pool OPs to phi

* Fix CI error

* Fix conflicts

* fix eager benchmark test failed

* fix test_tracer failed

* remove needless deps in unittests

* add gpu marco

* fix other unittests

* fix kernel name error

* fix test_prepare_op

* fix failed dygraph unittests

* fix gpu failed tests

* fix cinn test failed

* fix cinn test failed

* fix dropout tests

* add reduce_sum grad kernel

* add reduce_grad

* modify reduce grad

* update reduce grad functions

* fix build error

* add argument mapping

* move cast input after grad

* add dims.size=1 cpu reduce_sum grad compute method

* update reduce grad GPU

* remove raw reduce_sum_grad kernel

* modify header files

* add namespace funcs for reduce_grad_funcstions

* save code

* fix bug of set_value

* add coverage test

[Phi]Move Relu/Cos/Sin/Tan/Acos/Asin/Atan/Sinh/Cosh/Asinh/Acosh/Atanh kernels in Activation to Phi (#40175)

* move activation op

* adjust code format

* fix compile bugs

* fix ci bugs

* code format adjust

* code format adjust2

* activate ci status

* modify according to comment

* add python api test in TestOp

* test_python_api if self.python_api is set

* fix code by CR

* [MLU]support reduce tensors on mlu

* [MLU]fix compiler options

* add check for backward hook

* refine ut

* [MLU] adapt matmul op

* [MLU] fix phi namespace