* make tensor_util contains no cuda code

* refine isfinite

* revert ut

* move isfinite function to its op

* fix test

* fix compile

* std::isnan is not defined for int type on windows

* fix windows compile

* fix fp16

* fix rocm compile

* revert gradient node

* move check finite and unscale kernel into phi

* move infershape into phi

* move update_loss_scaling kernel into phi

* remove original kernels

* move update loss scaling infershape into phi

* add header for xpu and npu

* solve coverage failed

* fix npu test failed

* remove mutable data in cu file

* fix new executor failed

* add valid check for meta tensor output