Integrated Trainer of Parameter Server (API add `fluid.contrib.layers.sparse_embedding` only) (#22957)

* Integrated Trainer of Parameter Server

* Support AucRunner in PaddleBox
* update some code style

Add the pslib graph batch reader mode, add the test case for this change

This reverts commit 66fce9e8.

Fleet Parameter Server API Integrated

* user can call dataset.set_download_cmd to set its customized download cmd
* add UT to cover this scenario

* update

* update test=develop

* update compile set test=develop

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* update run demo test=develop

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* change style test=develop

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* change style test=develop

* add dataset unittest test=develop

* update test=develop

* update for record test=develop

* udpate style for record test=develop

* update for record test=develop

* update for record test=develop

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* fix format test=develop

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* add GeneralRoleMaker which is for general usage
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* fix master patch when slot is dense
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* fix fs_client_param bug， user can set this config through fleet_desc_file or fleet config
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* fix cache table bug
* add save_paddle_inference_model
* fix hdfs util bug
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* remove duplicate code and duplicate config of master+patch
* drop all ins which has conflict slot or size < merge_size
* user only need to set merge size，if ins num of same id is not equal to merge size, just drop these ins
* user must make sure master data and patch data has no same slot whose feasigns are both non-zero, otherwise these ins will be dropped. (slot list should still be the same of both master and patch)
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add executor.FetchHandler for train/infer from the dataset

* support change shuffle thread num
* support change train thread num
* fix receive shuffle data of each channel
* data norm stop gradient
* add check thread_tensor type and root_tensor type when merge metric
* remove sleep in shuffle, add config
* add config of pslib client to client communication
* fix xbox str
* add data norm op testcase
* add flush in trainer finalize

* unify DataLoader APIs, test=develop

* integrate iterable CPU Dataset, test=develop
add GPU dataset supporting, test=develop

* add unittests for dataset, test=develop

* add more docs to dataloader apis, test=develop, test=document_preview

* refine doc, test=develop

* refine doc again, test=develop

* increase coverage, test=develop

* support preload thread
* sleep before fleet wrapper exit for pslib core dump
* optimize hdfs log
* fix master+patch bug

* dump slot

* test

* proto

* dump slot

* test

* proto

* code style

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* style

* add delete after unseen days

* add unseen days

* code style

* conflict solve
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* add clear model

* code style
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* support debug tensor of each ins
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* support debug tensor of each ins
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* learning rate

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* unitest

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* multi phase

* add channel

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* define

* define
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* rm define
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* linux

* linux
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* style
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* output format
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* windows ci
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add save cache model api in fleet& add slots shuffle in dataset module & add metric op to calculate ctr related metrics (#18871)

* add ctr related metric layer test=develop

* add save cache and slots shuffle test=develop

* add save cache and slots shuffle test=develop

* fix error

* fix error

* fix style for ci

* fix for comments

* change SlotsShuffle input to std::strinf for generality

* fix style

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* fix stylr

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* change non-const reference to pointer

* fix style

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* fix style test=develop

* fix style  test=develop

* add return ins num in ctr metric op

* change dtype to float in metric_op.py

* fix error test=develop

* fix style test=develop

* fix API spec

* fix API spec

* fix API spec test=develop

* add UT test=develop

* add a place field in DataFeed to denote which place it will feed data to.
* abstract the copy process in CopyToFeedTensor function
* add UT for float32 type and for CUDAPlace

move the thread-check code from train_from_dataset to a single function
add UT for the thread check function

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