* update, test=develop (#29559)

* Disable gloo by default (#29805)

* update, test=develop

* update, test=develop

* fix fleet for multi-stream

* fix memcpy for ncclid

* use sync to solve move operation

* update, test=develop (#29331)

* polish parallel api impl & doc details

* add unittest for coverage

* remove spawn test in py2.7

* add parallel api into white list

* add gloo initializer, test=develop

* add gloo initializer, test=develop

* remove backend argument of init_parallel_env

* remove keep name table in transformer

* add cpu version check

* add skip unittest for init_parallel_env

* polish doc: remove func use & update example

* add dygraph parallel run interface

* polish implement & unified env property name

* add print config arg

* refactor init_parallel_env function

* Compatible with multiprocessing and launch modes

* set default trainer start port

* support run in python 2

* polish python2 support code

* remove python2 support

* refine launch import

* polish dome design details

* refactor api implemention & path

* use new method _set_expected_place

* add spawn unittest framework & mnist test

* add more unittests & doc

* fix unittest failed

* polish english doc

* self review and polish details

* refactor code by reviewer's comments

* fix unittest failed

* fix parallel_env unittest

* fix several typos

* fix error introduced when fixing typos

* add unpublic note for start_processes

* polish details by xiaoguang's comment

* verify correctly when spawn nprocs=-1

* refactor spawn & init_parallel_env design

* polish doc details

* open spawn unittests

* try to fix doc compile error

* try to fix unknown doc format error

* add skip unittest when not gpu