faster build by reduce by-product, reduce linking library and fix compile warning of std=c++11 (#22164)

* add collective communication library in fleet to replace mpi
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- 添加了fluid-lite子图方式运行resnet的单测
- 修改了依赖Lite的git commit id

* add bn and relu fuse pass

* add op attr assert and dtype assert

* fix some inputs&&outputs bugs for the fused op and pattern.

* add the unittest for fuse_bn_act_pass. test=develop

* use normative enforce statements. test=develop

* add the cpu test. test=develop

* add the support of batch_size=1 for the bn with relu op. test=develop

* add the error type for paddle throws. test=develop

* add fused_batch_norm_act and fused_batch_norm_act_grad to op_has_unsed_vars_white_list. test=develop

tweak the interface of cache_third_party function - expose the SOURCE_DIR for each external library (#21899)

* Add the dynamic load of nvrtc, and support runtime compiling of CUDA kernel using nvrtc.
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* Call CUDA driver api to launch the kernel compiled by nvrtc.
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* Disable for mac and windows.
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* Refine the codes to support manually specified num_threads and workload_per_thread.
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* Refine the CUDA kernel to support large dims.
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* Add DeviceCodePool to manage all device codes.

* Add the first implementation fusion_group op.

* Add unit-test for fusion_group op.

* Add the check of result.

* Add the check of nvrtc in unit-test.
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* Add comment to explain the inputs, outputs and features of fusion_group op.
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* Disable fusion_group op for mac and windows.
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* Make the compiling of device code return status instead of hanging up.
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* Add the check of whether there is CUDA driver library, and do not core dump when failing to call the CUDA driver API.

* Unify fusion_group_op's input and output names.
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* Add the check of CUDA driver library in unittest.
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* Refine the calling of PADDLE_ENFORCE.
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* Fix openblas to support compile on Windows when WITH_MKL=OFF

* fix compile error when WITH_PSLIB=ON
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* MKLDNN v1.0 rebase to Paddle 1.6
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* Add hacky paddle::string::to_string() implementation

* vectorize<int64-t>() -> vectorize() cleanup
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* PADDLE_ENFORCE and void_cast fixes
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* Rebase changes
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* Cosmetics
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* Delete MKL from mkldnn.cmake
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* CMake debug commands
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* Delete MKLDNN_VERBOSE and rebase fixes
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* Rebase fixes
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* Temporarily disable int8 resnet101 vgg16 and vgg19 tests
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* Add libmkldnn.so.1 to python setup
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* Add libmkldnn.so.1 to inference_lib cmake after rebase
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* Post rebase fixes + FC int8 changes
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* Fix LRN NHWC
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* Fix NHWC conv3d
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* Windows build fix + next conv3d fix
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* Fix conv2d on AVX2 machines
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* dygraph_grad_maker supports varbase without grad_var, test=develop

* fix compile, test=develop

* fix test_tracer, test=develop

* follow comments, test=develop

* test=develop, fix docker with paddle nccl problem

* don't expose numerous Tensor.set(), test=develop

* fix condition, test=develop

* fix float16 bug, test=develop

* feed should be Tensor or np.array, not Variable or number, test=develop

* use forcecast to copy numpy slice to new array, test=develop

* remove float16-uint16 hacking, test=develop

* add variable method to varbase and refactor to_variable to support return varbase

* support kwargs in varbase constructor

* add VarBase constructor to support default python args

* refine varbase initial method

* reset branch

* fix ut for change VarBase error info to PaddleEnforce

* cherry is parameter change before

* overload isinstance to replace too many change of is_variable

* rm useless files

* rm useless code merged by git

* test=develop, fix some ut failed error

* test=develop, fix test_graph_wrapper

* add some tests, test=develop

* refine __getitem__, test=develop

* add tests, test=develop

* fix err_msg, test=develop

* modify the repo address of eigen and warpctc

* fix the eigen not work on windows

* fix the eigen and warpctc can't recompile

* add jeston compile support
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* refine the cmake
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This reverts commit c93c9e5b.
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* remove -Wno-error=sign-compare, make warning as error

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* fix exist compile warning

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* Implement Int8 FC

* Integrate FC into INT8v2

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* int8 FC: transpose weights before computing scales

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* Add support for activation_type string in FC

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* Disable MKL-DNN's FC in VGG16 and 19

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* Disable FC quantization when mkldnn FC is disabled

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* Solve PADDLE_ENFORCES in FC int8

* Fix Paddle enforces and remove const cast

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* Fix style changes

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* Fix quantizer_tester test and add fc quantization

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* Fix FC test fail on CUDA

* Remove unnecessary log from quantize placement pass

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* Add Thread ID to FC hash key

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* Add comments to MKL-DNN FC Kernel

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* Refactor quantizer

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* Fix linter issues

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* Fix crash in slim googlenet

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* Fix PADDLE_ENFORCE messages

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* make CUDA_ARCH_NAME default Auto

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* refine warning

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* make Docker to gcc 8.2, test=develop

* add -std=c11 to grpc.cmake, test=develop

* fix warnings oof gcc 8 compilation, test=develop

* fix boost::bad_get, test=develop

* refine PADDLE_ENFORCE, test=develop

fix bug when build openblas with a computer that has installed openblas before,test=develop (#21160)

* Fix TensorRT detection bug

1. Add new search path for TensorRT at tensorrt.cmake
2. Add better debug message
3. Fix the bug of detection of TensorRT version

In NVIDIA official docker image, TensorRT headers are located at
`/usr/include/x86_64-linux-gnu` and TensorRT libraries are located
at `/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu`, so using `-DTENSORRT_ROOT` will
fail to detect TensorRT.

There is no debug/warning message to tell developer that TensorRT
is failed to be detected.

In later version of TensorRT (e.g. v6), `NV_TENSORRT_MAJOR` is
defined at `NvInferVersion.h` instead of `NvInfer.h`, so add
compatibility fix.

* Fix TensorRT variables in CMake

1. Replace `${TENSORRT_ROOT}/include` with `${TENSORRT_INCLUDE_DIR}`
2. Replace `${TENSORRT_ROOT}/lib` with `${TENSORRT_LIBRARY}`

Manually type path may locate incorrect path of TensorRT. Use the
paths detected by system instead.

* Fix TensorRT library path

1. Add new variable - `${TENSORRT_LIBRARY_DIR}`
2. Fix TensorRT library path

inference_lib.cmake and setup.py.in need the path of TensorRT library
instead of the file of TensorRT library, so add new variable to fix it.

* Add more general search rule for TensoRT

Let system detect architecture instead of manually assign it, so
replace `x86_64-linux-gnu` with `${CMAKE_LIBRARY_ARCHITECTURE}`.

* Add more general search rule for TensorRT

Remove duplicate search rules for TensorRT libraries. Use
`${TENSORRT_LIBRARY_DIR}` to get full path of libnvinfer.so

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