Refactor HCCLCommContext to be compatible with Paddle (#31359)

* fix reading flags from env

* fix problem caused by async run

* support partial grad

* support elementwise_add_grad npu kernel

* add unittest

* fix bug?

add allreduce and broadcast without test

* support list of list attribute for NPU

* fix compile problem

* fix reference

* [NPU] Support npu op: (1) pow (2) pow_grad

* Support fp16

Fix compilation problem (#31100)

* add npu sub op

* fix typo

* rename test

* fix bug

* fix bug

* add fp16 kernel

* fix typo

* support sub grad op

* support elementwise_sub_grad op
Co-authored-by: Nfrankwhzhang <frankwhzhang@126.com>

* support npu allocator

* add npu device context

* fix some compile problem

* fix some compile problem

* add npu info

* compile ok

* fix include dir

* support naive_best_fit_allocator

* run ut ok, bug failed to exit

* call aclrtResetDevice before exit

* fix aclFinilize

* add system allocatot test

* add selected_gpus in gtest

* add tensor_test for npu

* support npu op, initial commit

* add npu stream

* add elementwise_add_op

* compile ok

* fix typo

* fix elementwise_add_op_npu_test

* support op run

* test can run but failed

* change aclopExecuteV2 to aclopCompileAndExecute

[feature] support npu operator

[feature] support npu allocator

Add Hccl program group

Add distribution supported

* fix the rnn mask memory bug for out of read

* update the code for the rnn

* softmax backward optimize

* rename sendrecv.proto to namespace paddle.distributed

* split ps with distributed

* fix elugradgrad test fail and error message opt

* fix unitest,test=develop

* Update prroi_pool_op.h

fix error message

* opt message,test=develop

* fix ci fail,test=develop

* Fix the accuracy problem of allclose op when using float64 data type in static mode.

* Format the code style.

* fix cmake
Co-authored-by: NseiriosPlus <tangwei12@baidu.com>

Support vector<double> as type of op attribute and op set_value suppport vector<double> as value (#30126)

* type promotion for grad

* add type promotion for div op

* modify error message based on comments

* edit code according to review.

* Correct spelling according to review.

 add the op error message for the matmul xpu 

* optimize softmax forward

reduce the  occupied size  of memory for the fused pattern of elementwise_add Op and activation Op(relu Op for example) (#29885)