* Imperative deep-first backward process (#16605)

* Fix bug of gradient interface

* shrink transformer

* Right transformer

* Change from width-first backward to deep-first backward process

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* Reverse iterator op's input

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* Polish code

* Change the iteration direction in ingrads' map slots

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* Polish code

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* test=develop, cherry-pick fix for transformer in dygraph

* test=develop, fix transformer in dygraph
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* add layer norm to Layers, add transformer prepare encoding

* little change

* finish encoder part

* add decoder part

* finish model part

* add test case and part of data feed

* add transformer test

* add to_parameter, add remove in set_attr

* test=develop, fix pos encoding bug, create_parameter with stantard name

* test=develop, rm dropout test in imperative

* test=develop, fix cpu error

* test=develop, fix minize bug

* test=develop, fix one hot not stop gradient

* test=develop, fix one hot not stop gradient

* test=develop, refine parameter name

* test=develop, fix transformer test in imperative mode

* test=develop, fix transformer test in imperative mode

* test=develop, fix boost and mkl download error

* test=develop, fix boost and mkl download error

* test=develop, fix ci and refine code

* test=develop, fix ci and refine code