[Unify Tensors PR #1] Replaced pten::Allocation with shared_ptr<memory::Allocation> for Storage (#38301)

* Added shared_ptr<Allocation> member & corresponding interfaces to Storage

* Removed original pten::Allocation from Storage and adjusted the interfaces accordingly

* Fixed issues with storage offset

* Used place to malloc allocation for TensorStorage

* updates the pten allocation, test=develop

* avoids an error message, test=develop

* standarded unittest namespace

* fix detail error

* rename TensorBase interface data_type() to dtype()

* rename type to dtype of TensorMeta

* merge the code

* merge the code

* fix the problem when merge conflict

* move extension into pten [no-verify]

* append tensor methods by ext_tensor [no-verify]

* append other tensor methods [no-verify]

* ext related files tidy [no-verify]

* include relation tidy [no-verify]

* add pten tensor test [no-verify]

* replace tensor in custom op & compile success

* refine tensor constructor for unittest

* custom relu jit run success

* fix all custom op unittests

* add inference cmake adapt [no-verify]

* fix failed unittests

* fix windows failed unittests

* try to fix kunlun and inference failed

* fix test_elementwise_api error

* try to fix win compile failed

* fix kunlun fp16 type error

* remove useless haddle error macro

* add custom linear op test

* fix compile failed & add win symbols

* fix non pten kernel cast failed

* add dll decl for api

* polish several deetails

* polish details by review comment

* add dll_decl for register

* organize pten unitests

* fix detail errors