[Pten]Refactor elementwise_add grad / double grad / triple grad Kernel and move them to pten (#39048)

* refactor elementwise add grad

* fix compile bugs

* fix unit test bugs

* fix file conflicts

* fix bugs when buildPtenContext

* add cpu_context.

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* fix ci problem

* fix npu ci problem

* update

* fix ci compile

* remove MakePtenTensor in BuildKernelContext

* fix a bug caused by storage

* remove WriteBackOutput in dynamic and static mode

* fix complie error of std::max

* fix complie error of std::max

* fix date_type bug

* fix memory alloc bug

* add some debug info

* fix compile problem

* fix problem of data_type check

* comment out some unreached code

* Merged LoDTensor with Tensor,test=allcases

* Patched python level LoDTensor

* Patched python level LoDTensor

* Merge Tensor into DenseTensor

* Fixed namespace issues,test=allcases

* Fixed merge issues

* Fixed inference issues

* Fixed NPU test issues

* Fixed merge issues

* add pten::Place data structure.

* update ci problem

* fix ci problem

* update

* using platform::Place=pten::Place

* remove BOOST_GET_CONST for CPUPlace and GPUPlace

* compile pass 25%.

* compile pass 45%

* compile pass 60%

* remove boost_get for xpu npu mlu and ipu

* compile pass on cpu and gpu.

* fix compile problem

* fix compile error.

* update

* fix ci problem

* update

* ci approve

* fix ci problem

* fix ci eager test problem

* remove BOOST_GET_CONST

* fix npu compile

* remove cached kernel context

* revert dataloader format change

* move dot_dev api into dot_kernel.h

* add infermate header

* modify to dotkerel in dot_op.h

* mvoe conj dev api into complex_kernel.h

* move sign dev api into  sign_kernel.h

* move scale dev api into kernel.h and remove infermete.h

* rm paddle/pten/include/math.h

* rm paddle/pten/include/math.h

* rm include dir

* rm paddle/pten/include/math.h

* fix conflict with develop branch

* rm devContext in conj_op.h

* add the missing complex_kernel header

* fix mkldnn invalid infershape

* add unittest for mkldnn in new executor

* add import os

* refactor matmul directory in pten

* fix merge conflict

* add dot_grad kernel

* add dot_grad kernel in pten

* add matmul_grad kernel

* update the code

* delete useless code in fluid

* fix some bug of running matmul grad kernel

* fix merge conflict

* refactor some code

* refactor code

* Added shared_ptr<Allocation> member & corresponding interfaces to Storage

* Removed original pten::Allocation from Storage and adjusted the interfaces accordingly

* Fixed issues with storage offset

* Used place to malloc allocation for TensorStorage

* [Unify Tensors PR #3]Ported framework::Tensor interfaces to pten::DenseTensor

* Fixed issues with place

* Added comments

* Moved mutable_data with stream argument to DenseTensor

* Added set_offset interface

* Fixed CI issues,test=allcases

* [Unify Tensors PR #4] Port LoDTensor interfaces to DenseTensor

* Removed friend class EigenTensor/EigenMatrix/EigenVector from Tensor

* Modified framework::Tensor to inherit from DenseTensor

* Reverted changes too pten_layout() interface

* Removed friend classes

* Rearranged cfunction calls from tensor.data<void>() to tensor.data()

* Fixed CI issues

* Fixed lite issues

* Fixed data() interface issues,test=allcases

* Resolved IsInitialized() issues

* Fixed ResetHolder() issues

* Fixed MKLDNN & Storage issues

* Resolved ShareBufferWith() issues

* Fixed LoD issues

* unify infer_shape func calling

* support set grad infer shape fn for custom op

* unify infershape in new executor and eager

* remove todo comment

* revert infershape in operator

* [MLU]support calling mlu op from python interface

* [MLU]fix

* fix

* [mlu]fix mlu_places

* [mlu]fix required mlu

* fix

* [MLU]fix tensor copy

* [mlu] fix MLUPlace call path

This PR adds runtime flags run_kp_kernel, which choose which op to run for xpu2. There are two: dynamic linked and built from kp.

* fix accumulator bug

* fix unittest

* fix bug in pfp16

* fix hip

* fix hip

* add new API: paddle.clone;Tensor.element_size;nn.utils.parameters_to_vector

* fix comment

* Revert "Revert "pylayer support tuple/list type args (#37727)" (#37956)"

This reverts commit d848ff04.

* move check args,kwargs before forward execute

* Reduce reshape kernel functions in pten

* delete notes

* fix bugs when compile

This reverts commit a73064f2.

* Debug

* Fixed issue with reset_grad_inplace_version when used with clear_gradient & cross-batch accumulation

* Rearranged interfaces

* Fixed ci issues

* refine structure for cuda and rocm

* update

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* add inplace op adaptation

* optimize inplace logic and fix bugs when run kernel that has args of vector<DenseTensor>

* refactor logic that transform variable to densetensor

* update func name