* [ROCM] update fluid elementwise op for rocm (part10), test=develop

* update, test=develop

* address review comments, test=develop

* fix windows for optimization of elementwise_add Op

* use iwyu clean include second time, test=develop

fix the broadcast for the large second input 

* More precise mkldnn kernel choice in GetExpectedKernelType

* Fixes after review

* Refresh develop for CI

* CI experiment

* get back from CI exper

* type promotion for grad

* add type promotion for div op

reduce the  occupied size  of memory for the fused pattern of elementwise_add Op and activation Op(relu Op for example) (#29885)

* add aarch64 and sunway kunlun lib

* minor

* optimize elementwise_add for kunlun

* update kunlun dependence

* minor

* minor

* add the op version check for the elementwise ops, test=op_version

* add the support check for elementwise_ops, test=op_version

* try to add fwd op input dtypes

* refactor base impl

* return tmp_ins after dygraph prepare data

* fix typo found in debug

* polish comment & add complex net test

* revert detail change

* fix unittest failed

* add complex kernel condition control

* fix xpu test failed & polish comment

* polish details by review comments

* add conj op for complex types

* add conj for complex types

* add more test case

* add conj_op test

* modify conj api and impl

* add complex type for fill_constant_op xpu

* add setConstant for complex type

* remove complex conj test file

* user define grad for test_conj_op

* add test case for static mode of conj api

* modify conj doc

* change input args name to x

* remove useless codes

* conj support real types

* add conj test case for real number

* delete no need to calculate inputs in dygraph op_test

* delete no need to calculate inputs in dygraph op_test

* modify grad of mul for complex types

* fix the grads of inputs args order not match bug

* change the grad of div when complex types

* fix the grads of inputs args order not match bug

* - Reimplemented elementwise_add grad

- lint

* - fix after review

* - Fix to fix after review

This reverts commit befd6d53.

Co-authored-by: Nroot <root@bjhw-sys-rpm0223.bjhw.baidu.com>

* Compiling operator libraries with Unity Build on Windows CPU.

* Compiling operator libraries with Unity Build on Windows GPU, no_test, test=windows_ci

* Add option in windows ci script, no_test, test=windows_ci

* Optimize parallel compiling, test=develop

* remove limit of parallel compile and skip some ops in UB, test=develop

* remove changes of header file, test=develop

* remove changes of header file, test=develop

* fix test_eye_op unittest failed, test=develop

* Compiling operator libraries with Unity Build on Linux, test=develop

* set default WITH_UNITY_BUILD=OFF, test=develop

* Move unity build rules into a single file and add comment, test=develop

* optimize parallel compilation, test=develop

* fix undefined reference error on coverage ci, test=develop

* basic impl of type promote

* add comment & another testcase

* fix complex bugs & support python op promote type

* fix failed unittests & polish code

* add unittest for coverage

* change to only promote complex type

* polish code details

* polish several comments

* improve performance of elementwise_sum_grad

* pass stop_gradient for cast op

* improve performance of elementwise_add grad

* use tensor copy async

* dygraph branch

* fix dygraph branch

* add ut

* update conv2d & softmax to new xpu api
* test=kunlun

* remove useless comments
* test=kunlun

* remote softmax xpu op
* test=kunlun

* update kunlun softmax
* test=kunlun

* update xpu unitest
* test=kunlun

* fix elementwise_grad bug for kunlun
*test=kunlun

* add complex64 and complex128 type; add +-*/@ and slice opreator for complex types

* add test cases for complex elementwise, matmul and getitem unittest

* add test cases for complex types

* add test cases for complex matmul unittest