cinn_launch_op: optimize the overhead of preparing variables before executing cinn compiled program (#41777)

* optimize preparation overhead before executing cinn compiled program

* update code notes

* fix flag annotation

* add a flag of auto-tune feature beforehand

* support check data type and mutable_data with compiled infos in paddle with cinn

* update cinn_instruction_run_op_test with multi data type

* swith to PE execution in cinn launch

* fix outer variables erased

* skip the map bug temporarily for test

* temporary solution for batch_norm bug

* update comment

* fix compile error

* cinn_instruction_run_op_test: update code to skip external alloc/free instructions generated

* build a Paddle Graph from CINN compiled program for execution with PE

* update names of some variables

* fix random fail in build_cinn_pass_test and update some comments

* fix compiler error by merging phi pr

* add cinn_instruction_run_op test code

* update several interfaces of CinnLaunchContext

* update several interfaces and add detail comments in CinnLaunchContext class

* to skip the bug of error message check

* fix ut test failed due to reliant interface updated

* add cinn_instruction_run_op for launching execution of a cinn instruction

* fix multi definition compilation error

* update cmake

* fix bug at infershape

* fix compile error due to lacking header file

collecting input variables that only shape needed of each subgraph that compiled by CINN in build_cinn_pass, and expose them to memory optimization of framework passes by declaringDECLARE_INPLACE_OP_INFERER in cinn_launch op.

As the title.

complement deps of cmake files under WITH_CINN compilation

1. add a subdirectory named `cinn` in `paddle/fluid/operators` directory and move releated files into it
2. seperate CinnLaunchContext class from `cinn_launch_op.h` and put it in a  new independent file named `cinn_launch_context.h`, so that it can be included by others clearly.