* Chery_pick:[Eernie TRT]: add slice op and add emb eltwise layernorm fp16 support (#23723)

* refine ernie trt dynamic shape support
1. add slice op converter
2. add emb eltwise layernorm fp16 support
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* fix dynamic shape test ut
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* fix comments.
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* fix comments
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* cherry-pick [BUG]: Head number can only be > 1 on multihead op (#23974)

* support the head number == 1
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* fix slice op error.
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* cherry-pick :disable trt test, test=develop (#23984)

test=release/2.0-beta

Revert "[Paddle-TRT] Add hard_sigmoid and hard_swish support(support MobilenetV3) (#23536)", test=develop (#23642)

This reverts commit cdc6d4e2.

* add hard_sigmoid trt op converter

* add hard_swish op converter and plugin. test=develop

* add dynamic plugin support.
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* change emb eltwise layernorm to math function
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* add emb eltwise layernorm
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* can run dynamic shape ernie
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* fix ci
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* add ut for trt ernie dynamic

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* refine dynamic shape c++ interface.
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* fix comments
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* fix comments
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* add TRT support for instance_norm op

* add gelu plugin

* align trt bert with gpu

* add support for fused fc with relu,

* add unittest for bert trt

Bug Fix: Paddle-TRT cannot handle adaptive pooling in pool2d op converter and "num" attribute in split op converter (#20733)

* fix pool2d trt converter, test=develop

* add fix for split op converter, test=develop

* update paddle-trt for:
    1. fix bug: when batch > 2, core in split plugin.
    2. add leaky_relu trt5.0 support (yolov3 from 65ms to 42ms.)
    3. add new attr to dropout.
    4. shuffle channel, swish, relu6 support
    test=develop

* 1. fix ci
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1). add static trt load model
2). fix bug: when device_id is not 0, the trt will have a bug
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1). add static trt load model
2). fix bug: when device_id is not 0, the trt will have a bug
test=develop

* Initialize the elementwise plugin.

* Implement the basic CUDA kernel of elementwise plugin.
test=develop