Add FLAGS_allow_cinn_ops & FLAGS_deny_cinn_ops for controlling op types used in training with CINN. (#36842)

* Update UT test_parallel_executor_run_cinn.py.

* Add FLAGS_allow_cinn_ops & FLAGS_deny_cinn_ops & FLAGS_cinn_ops_delim.

* Use the custom StringSplit function and remove the FLAGS_cinn_ops_delim flag.

* Add FlagController test.

* Apply lock to the cache_ only in CinnCompiler.

* Add VizGraph & ReadableKey method for CinnCompiler.

* Update the dot style of VizGraph in CinnCompiler.

增加CinnLaunchOp，负责执行Cinn子图编译的结果，要点如下：
1. 在子图划分的BuildCinnPass中，每个子图在原图中会被替换为该CinnLaunchOp，由它来调用Cinn进行子图编译、执行的功能。
2. CinnLaunchOp的输入/输出即为子图的输入和输出，另外增加`compilation_key`属性，它可由该属性key从全局Cache中获取子图对象、编译结果，该属性由BuildCinnPass在创建Op时进行设置
3. CinnLaunchOp功能实现的流程为：
        - 从全局Cache中获取子图对象
        - 从全局Cache中获取子图编译结果，未命中cache时进行即时编译
        - 根据编译结果的变量信息(数据类型、shape）初始化运行时数据，分配内存/显存
        - 将运行时数据打包为参数，调用cinn的可执行对象runtime program进行计算
        - 子图运行结果通过参数指针同步到paddle侧的tensor

* Init the functions of CinnCompiler.

* Add the unit test for CinnCompiler.

* Fix some compilation errors.

* Update the UT of cinn_compiler.

* Use Decomposer&OpFusion passes in CinnCompiler::CompileGraph.

* Update some comments.

* Uncomment some includes in build_cinn_pass.cc.

* Use refs instead of ptrs as returned types of FindGraph & Compile in
CinnCompiler.

* Use the merged CinnGraphSymbolization functions in CinnCompiler.